ok, now i remember what it was i was looking up! i was looking up whether or not it was possible for a guy to pee with a boner. yes, i look up strange things. lol. but it went to a forum website similar to this and had a whole group for diapering. out of curiosity, i read some of them. i still dont get it, i think it would be pretty uncomfortable, but there is obviously a fairly large market for it. maybe i can find the website in my history...it was awhile ago.....

I say start with your wife. If she doesn't want to play there is a reason. She's too tired, bored, nothing good happening in her life, just drudgery? When a woman has space and time and cares for herself, she wants sex. Where are her fantasies? If you start providing for her, she will provide back. You take care of her and she will take care of you. It may take a while to get there but giving to her and making her life better will only make yours better.

Weather, I'm sorry you feel embarrassed and fear being rejected by your wife for the idea. I find it really sad when a partner fears sharing fantasies and desires with his/her partner no matter what they are.

Would your wife be open to reading fetish erotica with you? There are a lot of good sites on the net and if she's willing to read it with you, that might be a way of opening up to her about your desire and at least get a conversation rolling about it.

As for the nylons, heels and panties, well no she doesn't have to dress in sex clothes, no one "has" to do anything but what does she have against doing something different to spice things up and doing something you enjoy?

I'm sorry you got made fun of here. Unfortunately you'll find people who if they can't comprehend something, they will bash it. I've had my share of messages from people bashing me for my bdsm likes, it comes with the territory. "The greatest ignorance is rejecting something you know nothing about."

By saying you're a runner, I'm assuming you mean you're into sensation play?

well.. to #15, i have a very strong sex drive, have no desire to be treated all the time as a baby, maybe a bad little boy just for role play.
and leather..being a runner i mean jogging..i have a quarter marathon in the morning..i run to stay healthy and keep the cookies off my butt! i like the idea of getting her to read fetish info. i just wanted to know also if anybody has ever done any role play with diapers & rubber pants

lol...sorry about that. Someone who likes sensation play is known as getting a "runner high", that's what I thought you meant when you said you were a runner. I'm a runner also, in both ways though, sensation/pain play and running around the lake every morning.

No, we've never role played with diapers or rubber pants. We don't see anything wrong with it, it's just not our thing.

I hope she'll welcome the idea of reading fetish erotica together, it might get her to at least open up to hearing your ideas.

If you don't want to cheat and ruin your marriage, you could consider counseling. Not all urges are worth following up on. Keep in mind the consequences may not be worth it.

Weather,
I'd just like to say..
I wasn't making fun of your desires. I'd never judge what others do or desire to do as long as its not harmful to others.
jc

I think weathers post is what this group is all about, a place where you can get answers to difficult and somtimes embarrasing questions, I'm sorry I cant add anything but I admire you weather for having the balls to ask :-)

I'm sorry if I offended anyone with my response, I was in a bad mood.

i just wanted to tell everybody thank-you so much for the thoughts and comments. Its so comforting to know that there is a place to get exp & comments. It was a big step for nr to even post this. Thank-you all! Luv ya!!

so i guess it's safe to say that you like being "pampered"

She made a funny , and I got it YAY