I have no experience with that but I'd think Craigslist is your best bet, without having to pay. And maybe since you indicated you'll travel to do it, check out other cities.

Try collarme.com and alt.com

i've tried that alt.com and have never had any luck? craigslist i have posted but seems all i get is scammers wanting you to sign-up to some websites. How can i find a mature woman who is discreet and open minded?

Are you looking for a woman to date, have a relationship with or just for play?

Are there any Fetish Clubs in or close by your area?

im looking for somebody just to play. No fetish clubs around that fit my fetish. I've seen a couple of doms, but it is too expensive and they only do it for the money. It turns me on to live-out fantasy's for another female..so i would like to find the same! P.S. im also a runner!

i stumbled across a website recently that was about diapering...i wish i could remember what it was. i dont even remember how i stumbled across it!

i am sure just doing a google search would turn up a lot of stuff.

as far as craigslist goes, you have to put a specific code into the posting. saying things like, "put your favorite color in the subject line" that helps weed out the spam and scammers.

i am personally not into the idea of diaper play, but if my husband really wanted to try it i would oblige.

thanks for the info! Ya, my wife would call me sick if i asked her. She works at a retirement care place so her exp with adult diapers turns her off. I dont want to cheat on her, but this fetish is something i would like to live out and find somrbody who is discreet and understands.

Does your wife have any idea it's a desire of yours and have you ever talked to her about it?

I have a real hard time comprehending a partner calling the other sick for a desire. Even if it's not their thing and they won't do it, doesn't make it wrong or sick. There's no fanatsy or desire I can't tell partner about and nothing he can't tell me about without fear of being ridiculed for it. It might not be something I or he will want to engage in but we would never judge the other because of it.

i guess im too embarrased or fear of getting rejected for the idea. ive talked to her about wearing like some nylons and heels and satin panties but she just shruggs her shoulders and tells me she shouldn't have to dress-up in 'sex clothes"

i can imagine not being adventurous in a marriage. i will admit, that there are hard-limits for me. (like breath-play. the idea of being strangled terrifies me), but i will entertain or at least talk about most things.

I know this is the healthy sex board..and, not the healthy relationship board..
Still..saying.." I don't want be unfaithful, but".....
Is a contradiction.
Also..I don't understand what " It turns me on to live out fantasies for another female" means. Another female as opposed to your wife..
Or...? Self?

Did " sex clothes " and fetishes not come up before vows were exchanged?

I'm sorry...but, I'm of the belief that..unless your spouse is in agreement with sex outside the marriage..." healthy sex" doesn't include it. If you're dissatisfied enough to cheat..in spite of " not wanting to"...why not give her the respect of ending the marriage first? Or..at least let her know your intent and leave it up to her.

You're not asking about " healthy" sex..just selfish sex.

thankyou for the comment jancam. I dont want to end my marriage because of this, and yes, i do have struggles inside, i dont think of it as selfish sex, it was so hard for me to post here. I made a post once and somebody really made fun of me and that turned me away from here. I respect you're view and comments To me, this topic here is a healthy , positive thing for me to talk about

OH LAWD! I was hoping this thread wasn't what I thought it was, and BOOM! It was. I have no comment for those who wish to act like babies. No comment whatsoever.

Moving on to the next thread.

Weather, it did take courage for you to post this here. While I can't claim to understand the desire that you have, I don't judge it. I disagree with stepping out on a partner, though. That's why I'm inclined to say please hold off on making this fantasy a reality until you've really reached a point with your wife where you can talk about this. If you are committed to her, she deserves to know what's going on in your head, and you deserve to be heard. If you go ahead and cheat in order to do this, there's a good chance you'll want much more of it and then you'll just be cheating all the time, leading a double life.

This is a very expensive lifestyle, I've seen some tv shows about it. So you better start making more money if you want to live up your fantasies. It's not for me but if my bf wanted to try it i'm definitely game. Would love to try everything once!

Is yours a sexual thing or do you not have a sex drive? That's how most of the adult babies i've seen on TV have been, zero sex drive. Which i could not handle :(

I have no desire to be a baby, but i'd be a mommy for a day lol