Healthy Sex Support Group

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koolman 09/15/2008

I swear, every time I get back from Christian church, have purged a few tears and feel spiritually rejuvinated, my heart is supercharged and I feel like fucking all day, and jerk off at least twice! I'm sure this is not what Jesus has in mind, but I can't help it! A release of loving spirit is good for the libido. If I'm plunging back into "sin", sorry, God.

Any church-going folks have similar experiences-?

Deesdiamond 10/25/2008

tell you what mate.
you get hard in the house of god your fk,n sad afterwords do what you want to satisfi yourself,thought i liked you,but your a very sad man.if you want to get a stiffy at a house of god.

deleted_user 10/25/2008

Kool is just being honest.

GZUSthug 10/25/2008

AMEN AND AMEN TO THE SUBJECT LINE.

AS FOR THE POST, I LOVE MY WIFE WHICH GOD BROUGHT INTO MY LIFE, AND I MAKE LOVE TO HER WITH A VERY GRATEFUL HEART TO BE ABLE TO MAKE LOVE TO SUCH A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN AND HAVE IT BLESSED BY THE LORD.

SO IN THAT CASE, YES, WE USUALLY HAVE SEX AFTER CHURCH WHEN WE GO ON SUNDAY NIGHT.

GZUSthug 10/25/2008

OH AND WHEN SHE SCREAMS, "JESUS, I JUST THINK SHE IS SCREAMING MY SCREEN NAME, SO IT DOUBLY TURNS ME ON.LOL.

koolman 10/25/2008

dees: Did I not word this correctly? Why are some assuming I get stiff and want to get freaky IN the house of God?

No no no...the supercharged feeling is AFTER I get home. And if I had a wife or SO, she'd have trouble keeping me off her--I'd be a hound.

deleted_user 10/25/2008

wow i do not feel like that at all! i feel like channing and i need to hurry up and get our asses married lol i feel very straight laced and oral is wrong...thats how i feel then after a couple days i few "normal" again i repeat this every week lol

koolman 11/03/2008

cc: What sort of church do you go to? Catholic? If so, I too was raised Catholic and the Catholics always make you feel guilty or dirty about sex, like anything other than missionary in the pursuit of conceiving children is a big no-no.

I haven't been to Catholic church for 23 years for that reason. I now go to non-denominational Christian church, and, while they don't talk about sex, the place is very laid-back and it's all about loving Christ (and each other, in a non-sexual way). This church seems to be the right "fit". When my heart is filled with the love of Christ, it's so very easy to love (and desire) everything on two legs with a va ja ja too LOL.

I'm a fool who needs to be married, to keep me from being a promiscuous hound. There's even a passage in the Bible (Mark I believe) about "men who cannot control their urges need to be married". Trouble is, contrary to Biblical wisdom, I don't want to wait 'til marriage to have sex, because I've got a pretty high appetite and she should too (and how do we know if our sex drives match up?).

The downshot of premarital sex, of course, is the thinking (not to offend) "I'm already getting the milk; why buy the cow?" But hopefully you and Channing love and value each other very much as friends too so you know it'd be a happy marriage if you tied the knot. You guys sound well-matched. Best of success!

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