Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
Is it a given now that in order to date that you have to give a blow job?? Everyone I talk to days yes they do and love it. I think it is disrespectful to the woman. I am having a really hard time getting this in my mind let alone doing it. Please help!
Barry
It sounds like you have been very unlucky with the men you meet.
MaryContrary
I do not know what to do. I'm not into bj but if that is the only way to get a guy and keep him, I may have to learn to swallow my self respect and do it.
Barry
A man who, on meeting a woman, thinks first about what is between his legs, is not likely to have much between his ears: avoid him.
calirn13
You should be more concerned that they aren’t going down on you. It’s not necessarily about the blow job as much as it is about the person you are giving it to. If you aren’t totally into the person… you shouldn’t be having sex with them. If you love them and they turn you on.. then you want to pleasure them and vice versa ..
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