Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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SST 10/28/2008

the one who iniates sex or do you wait on the other
I like to iniate but never push myself on anyone of course I is a flirt

sossie 10/28/2008

I am with you idmay. It gets old having to keep asking for it and keep getting turned down.

I don't know why we didn't end up with some of these guys on HS becasue most of these seem ready at any time or any place. *sigh*

I havn't gotten to the point of not asking i just don;t ask that much. Hurts to bad to be rejected all the time.

deleted_user 10/28/2008

Yes, that is definitely 50/50...but surprise attacks are so much fun!

kidsintowe03 10/28/2008

yeah..I'm not thinking mutual orgasmic lust counts as "initiating", oh, but who started running first and who started unbottoning first..these factors COULD make a diff....

deleted_user 10/28/2008

sigh,I don't remember any more.

deleted_user 10/28/2008

lol..my gf even told me that even if there is the very rare time that she doesn't want to have intercourse, she believes in servicing her man will always be willing to at least give me oral :))

kidsintowe03 10/28/2008

well, then you are clearly in heaven LH

deleted_user 10/28/2008

So far so good hon lol And CERTAINLY a FAR cry from the stbx !! lol

flutterbyfly 10/28/2008

Do I initiate? Um...... I plead the 5th.

deleted_user 10/28/2008

oh flutter...you didn't even have to answer this one...we all know what a freaky lil thang you are!

hehehe...and thats a good thing!

deleted_user 10/28/2008

Yeah, that's kinda a given there Jen my darling lol

flutterbyfly 10/28/2008

Well damn, my secrets out!

kidsintowe03 10/28/2008

I'm thinking it's safe to say your secret was out months ago hon....hehe

SST 10/28/2008

hey flutter why didn't i know huh huh lol

deleted_user 10/28/2008

And you WONDER why everyone on this board wants you ?? lol Man AND woman lol I know I'LL want you no matter who i'm with or for how long lol...kinda my own little secret fantasy :)

deleted_user 10/28/2008

yes, i agree LH...i think we should start a new support group, for those who fantasize over flutter.

I'll be the first:

Hi, my name is ldmay, and i want flutter's body. Whether my husband likes it or not.

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