*SHOCKED* you?! what? a what? a ... flirt??! omg...where has my head een that I have NEVER seen this??

ahhhhhhhhh good can take advantage of ya while in the shocked state lmao gotchya kit

I love both. After being rejected by my Ex-fiancee I want to feel desired.... so I really like being pursued. If I know it will be well receipted I have no problem unzipping and taking what I want. lol I also love waking a man up in the morning under the covers. lol

wow love that anwser

I am kind of a mix of both. When possible I love for my partner to initate but for my hubby I am ALWAYS JUST RAPING HIM IN HIS SLEEP.LOL

I would say that 98% of the time I iniate the sex. The only time he does is when he has been drinking.

This question is PERFECT for my stbx ! lol I think she may have initiated the sex maybe..three times ? lol Just simply zero desire from her, period, nada, nip ! Ifi wan'ted it, i had to ask or beg or she would just lay there and let me do it.

Well, i know it was her cause every partner i've been with since her has initiated the sex with me and shown me desire.

As for my gf now,...she won't be in my place 5 minutes before we're somewhere in my apt going at it lol And she LOVES waking me up in the morning !! :))

Still not sure if it's sad that i've had twice as much sex in the six months that i've been seperated than in the almost three YEARS that we were together !

It's both in our house...sometimes me, sometimes my hubby.

You SST? A flirt? *gasps* :)

It used to be ALL me but I learned to back off because the rejection hurts too bad so now I wait for him.Every now and then I go for it..

Well I like it both ways but most of the time with me ex I practically beg and pleaded for it.. Right now with not getting any I would take it either way. Damn I need some soon or I am going to go crazy...lol

I know exactly what you mean Tray ! The constant rejection was killing me. She was a night owl and i had to wake early. I would get up to go to bed and give her a kiss (was LUCKY if the kiss was mutual) and ask her if she wanted to come upstairs a little "early" ? She would just flat out shake her head no, almost each and every time.

SO glad i'm no longer dealing with that !

I am the initiator most of the time. I wish he would put forth an effort sometimes too.

i'm with Tray...i got really tired of being rejected by my H...so i don't try anymore. i take care of myself, and whenever (if he ever) wants it, he comes to me for it.

oh Ldmay..i feel ya hon..my X was the master at rejection..I'll never forget after mothering his only children, I was relaxing in a nice hot bubble bath..I was in there purposefully at a certain time when I knew he would come in from work..what does the ass do?? peeks his head in the door, looks right at me and says "is it ok if I take a crap while you are in here?"

I think its pretty even, I mean when you both run across a room and collide as clothes fly and find yourselves entertwined into a ball of tingled tangled passion. that would be 50/50 right