Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
i'm horny as heck...
and i'm in a sexless relationship....
i love this man...but...hate that we no longer have a relationship....we don't talk...we sleep at opposite ends of the bed as far away from each other as possible...in 2009 we only had sex twice... and this year we've only had sex 1...
we have a lot of issues and sometimes i don't like him...but i always love him...and the fact that we don't have an intimate relationship anymore really bugs me and stresses me out...
i guess i'm just venting...cause i'm tired of always being horny...i masturbated earlier this afternoon...but it just isn't enough...i want the sexual relationship that we used to have...it was great...and i miss it terribly...
sorry for just venting i'll stop now and go masturbate some more I guess...
Depressed.Recluse
and i'm in a sexless relationship....
i love this man...but...hate that we no longer have a relationship....we don't talk...we sleep at opposite ends of the bed as far away from each other as possible...in 2009 we only had sex twice... and this year we've only had sex 1...
we have a lot of issues and sometimes i don't like him...but i always love him...and the fact that we don't have an intimate relationship anymore really bugs me and stresses me out...
i guess i'm just venting...cause i'm tired of always being horny...i masturbated earlier this afternoon...but it just isn't enough...i want the sexual relationship that we used to have...it was great...and i miss it terribly...
sorry for just venting i'll stop now and go masturbate some more I guess...
Depressed.Recluse
then work....then study....
hopefully at least i'll climax this time....
-DR-
at 7:45 this morning may 7 2010...we had SEX!!!
it wasn't mindblowing or a 45 min session like it used to be but we had sex!...until he got a charlie horse in his leg and had to get stand-up... so then we did it doggie style!!!!!...
now i'm hornier...i want to do it again...
i love haveing sex with him...but i just want to keep doing it....
oh...did i mention i had sex this morning...i'm feeling a little better...
:D
-DR-
You need to rub off on my W. I want it so bad and she just ignores me.
not to make light of your situation, but your post asks:
"anyone else horny?"....,
I am a guy..... Enough said!!!
Dan
A skeleton walks into a bar and says : " give me a beer and a mop".
ANOTHER challenge is coming up for us both also... or i actually think it will be more of a challenge for me rather than her. During the seperation, i've had my own apartment and lived alone while she moved in with her mother. So, when we don't have sex, i at least have the privacy of living alone and the ability to "take care of business" myself lol NOW however, i will be moving in with her and her mother next month because we want to live together again. SO...i'm hoping this will allow us to have more intimacy than we have been, but this is a whole new situation for me so i'll just have to see what happens and remain optimistic. The only other thing is that my ability to "take care of business" myself will be greatly reduced and that will really take some getting used to.
In the end however, i know that my love for her will sustain while we work on said issues and build back up into what will be a wonderfully hot and romantic intimate marriage :)
The key part is....communication and reassurance !!
well, my fiance and I go throught stages were we are screwing like rabbits and then ....we kinda don't have any sex for few weeks ...just cuddle up.
we actualy were living together and we had sex /made love almost everynight and then we started to have problems argued alot and he moved out we did actualy split for about 3 months and REKINDLED just after newyrs. crazy!!!!!
and now he stays over few nights aweek ....and we makelove but not all time .........it sounds bit crazy i know, believe it or not we are very much inlove .:)))) i guess just go throught strange phases.