I am 34 dating a man who is 43..almost 44..no issue for us! Last bf was 41.

45 and gf is 28 no problems with the difference

My h is 7 years older, when I met him he was mature and I liked that. The only problem is our differences in music, etc.

That's excellent! Glad to know things are working so well for some of you. I'll have to keep you in mind when I run into problems! lol...join the group anyway. once it gets going, I'm sure you'll have a lot to add. Thanks!

bump again

At age 26 I began a ten year relationship with a divorced lady who was 22 years older. That was great because at 48 she was a fox but at 58 she looked 70 and 50 lbs more lbs and I was still looking 30 5'10 170 lbs. The hardest thing for me to do was to explain to people that I was not her youngest son.

I'm 53 now and 50 lbs heavier . Go figure.

I was with a woman 10 years my senior. The relationship was great and the sex was fantastic ! As for dating , i prefer older or "mature" women. Much less drama, more fullfilling and again, the sex is usually great :)
However, for a long term or marriage, i think i may prefer closer to my own age.

He's a pimp daddy! A playah! And I must say, Dave...son--you don't look a day over 30 (Dick Clark or Donny Osmond syndrome here-?).

I have had women come on to me who were at least 15 years younger. The attraction (for them): Experience-? Confidence-? The attraction (for me): Smooth skin, tight bod, sweet, open, untethered hearts with less baggage (but just as much insecurity)...stupid me, I never pursued it.

Good for you, Dave! Congrats on having the energy and libido in your 50s to accomplish such a feat! Do they know of your "open" status and are cool with it?

Koolmana - I don't really know how this all happened to me, but some of it - a large part I think - is cultural. "24" is Thai/Japanese, "29" is Laotian, and "39" is Korean, although she was raised here. I took their pics off my profile. It seemed too "trophy-like" and was wrong of me to put them up there. 24 and 39 both do a lot of modeling and I have some great photos, but if they caught me putting them out there, I think I'd lose my equipment.

Anyway, the youngest hates that I see other people, but I have told her, repeatedly, that we need to transition to friendship status and stay there - more for her than for me. Long term, she'll be much healthier and happier with someone else. The Laotian lady and I just hooked back up after a few years of not seeing each other. She has been the only one concerned about the gap and now says that that doesn't matter and that she was an idiot for not being there back then. Right now she doesn't care that I see other people. We'll see. The 39 year old Korean lady just likes older dudes. She's gorgeous, had her breasts done, works out like a fiend to keep her body perfect, the whole deal. But to be honest, I'm with her for those reasons. I don't see it going anywhere other than social/sexual. Just don't feel she is emotionally available were we to make things exclusive (tried before and failed miserably).

But thanks for your comments and, believe me, my primary photo is photoshopped for work. I'm now so ugly, I went to a plastic surgeon...he ADDED A TAIL!!!

Not a big age difference between me and bf. I am older by 5 years but I can say that he is more matured in so many ways than I am.

i was with a guy 10 years older than me, years ago, too old for me for the age i was, and then i was 30 and he was 20, sex was great, but for obvious reasons didnt last long

My dear husband is 20 years older than me.

We have been together for more than 10 years and married for almost 6!

When I was 20 I dated a guy who was 44. It didn't go anywhere and we never had sex.

My boyfriend if 17 years older than me!!! Im 20 and he is 37