A. Sometime in my teens. If I remember correctly how many I've been with since then (we're going waaaaay back for me), 8 that were worth the time, 5 men and 3 women.

Q. Did you ever or do you engage in phone sex?

A. Yes, once. However, I wasn't in a happy relationship and it didn't work with my now ex.

Q. What emotion do you find is the easiest to become turned on during?

A. That's a tough question, a lot of different emotions stir up quite easily in me and are very strong. I'd say for me it would be adoration.

Q. Do you and your partner (or former partner) ever watch porn together?

Yes we did, but I find most porn funny and very unrealistic.

Do you ever strike up a conversation with strangers?

sure, that's easy for me

what biggest disappointment have you had that ended up leading to your greatest success after all???

A) My biggest disappointment is my wife when she walked out to be unfaithful....now looking forward I am so free....and I have a little gal Im fixin my sights on that could be the greatest lady that ever walked the planet ;)

Q) How do you heal from heartbreaks?

A: seriously, I do not believe one ever actually heals from a broken heart, I believe you turn the page, you turn your heart, else become calous and resentful, unwilling to open up and let love truly mend your scarred and tattered life. I believe it is in each and all of us to seek a solution to our sorrows only by allowing that chance of pain to be present. Never trying to find a cure is in itself a disease to end all. Jmo

Q: when death takes a loved one, do you reflect on the past memories or look to the future without the one/s who have past?

I think you do both. I mean you look to and remember the past to move forward alone, but use those memorys and experiances to keep there love alive until you see them again.

Do women really want a guy that is open to pleasing them or a guy that takes what he wants?

A. Well for me, I want both. A man that takes what he wants, when he wants it IS pleasing me, it's a HUGE turn-on to me, very satisfying and pleasurable both physically and emotionally but that doesn't go for just any man. It's only within the kind of relationship (D/s) that I love being in and with the right partner/Dom. Just because he takes what he wants doesn't mean it's all about him and I don't get what I want/need.

Q. Do you usually have lights on or lights off when having sex and which would you prefer?

A) Candles only!

Q) What makes you feel the need for good hard grudge sex?

A. If you mean grudge sex as in pissed off at your partner sex, revenge sex? We don't engage in pissed off sex if one of us is pissed at the other or both of us are pissed. Now good, hard, fast, rough, throw me down and do what you want with me sex, that's more than welcome any time.

Q. Do you have any plans for Labor Day?

(yes it was the later ;)....grudge as in "mean" would not be good..thats just what we call good hot dirty spank your ass sex round these parts) ;)

A) Just relaxing with my boys after getting back to work...nothing major...has been nice so far...I feel blessed :)

Q) What made you feel good during this past week?

A. Babysitting the 4 babies. It's exhausting but a whole lot of fun.

Q. Are you looking forward to Autumn?

A: yes, always enjoy the Fall, the onset of my ME time.

Q; do you believe/think your relationships in life have excelled from being a part of this site. I do.

No, I don't have many relationships with people since I have been on this site..

How do you handle moody people?