I would choose the one who made me feel more comfortable..The one I seemed to have more of a connection with.

did you ever make a hamburger for breakfast?

A ; Well I didn't cook it myself but yes it was around breakfast time and I ate a hamburger. I work an odd rotating shift schedule where I am working days one week and nights the next. So at any given time I have probably eaten things pretty much as I wanted them.

Q ; Is a gentleman or " lady " considered out dated to you or do you still believe in such things ???

A. Depends on what your definition of gentlemen/lady is. I don't need or expect my chair being pulled out for me, the car door opened for me or any of that type of thing. If he does it it's nice and I'll thank him, if he doesn't do it, it doesn't bother me at all. To me a gentlemen/lady is someone who shows respect at all times, is trustworthy, honest, loving, caring.

Q. What's something non-sexual that gets you thinking of sex.

A : The beach I am there and whether or not there are scantily clad ladies my mind is on being with a lady and being alone together there. The smell of the ocean is somehow erotic to me.

Q : Is it better to plan things and anticipate what is coming or go with the moment ???

A. I like to plan things, but let it happen spontaneously.

Q. Do you keep negative people in your life, regardless of "how close" they are? i.e. family, co-workers, social network "friends"?

A : For the most part yes. I try to find something likeable in all the people I meet. For the most part if people are just down right mean then I will avoid them otherwise I tend to be very tolerant.

Q : Is romance still important ???

A. I believe romance is still important and always will be. It's important for a couple to know what the other considers romance. What romance is to me might not be romance to someone else and that's something couples need to know about each other.

Q. What's one thing about your partner that annoys you, what's one thing about you that annoys your partner? If you're not in a relationship, answer for your last partner.

A. Negative attitude. About everything. Always found the negative aspect of any situation. I hate that!

Q. What is your favorite body part of your own body. ( e.g. I know I have awesome calves) :)

Oh, missed the second part of the Q. He always seemed to hate that I enjoyed music so much. Not sure why?

A : My eyes, they are often what are noticed by the ladies. I like their color which is a nice shade of blue.


Q : If you could change one thing about your first sexual experience what would it be ???

I would like to say that our relationship had grown into something more romantic instead of staying just friends.. Yet, running into him many many years later, I see it never would have worked out.

How do you get your creative abilities back again?

a. simplify, break your life back down to the basics & pay attention to what you feel. Let it direct you like a compass. If you feel creative around babies/children, spend time with that, etc. I apologize, i know this prolly sounds silly but sometimes there's just too much shit in the way & you gotta move it out.

q. i want to re-ask leather's q. cuz it was cool. What non-sexual thing gets you thinking about sex ?

A. The rain

Q. After the kids grow up and leave the nest does the romance return?

A. IMO, the romance should have never left just because there are kids. No part of a relationship should be put on the back burner. If romance is gone before the kids leave the nest, I imagine it might be very difficult to bring it back.

Q. Do you and your partner like the same type of movies?

A: There is some overlap, thank goodness, but he does enjoy his share of gory-type movies that many guys like and I just don't.

Q: Best movie you've seen recently?