A. IMO.........NO, it is not too much to ask to get laid every day. Being in a LDR is a killer! lol

Q. Are you and your partner (or previous partner if you don't have one now) on the same page with how important (or unimportant) your sex life is in a relationship?

A: Kind of. I am casually seeing him but he has become a partner of sorts during the last 4 months. Sexual partner for sure! We basically go out to eat and have sex. We talk on the phone every day But never sleep in the same bed. (Not since 200 anyhow)

But sex is only 1x or 2x a week. He keeps getting sick and telling me I am gonna have to satisfy myself for a few days and it is driving me crazy. He KNOWS how important it is to me (I actually used to date him 11 yrs ago too back when i was 21, but my sex drive has only increased since..and actually his skills in the bed room are even MORE amazing now...even if he doesn't need it ever day....I DO! ).

Recently we were discussing the terms of this relationship/ if we are gonna keep it "open" (ie: I can date other people 'cus i NEED MORE), I said, Ya know, i need to get laid more than once a week...!" And he said he will work on that. Lol.

But then He got sick again. We had AMAZING sex last night. But now what am I supposed to do today besides freakout and feverishly masturbate and wait for Sunday when he might feel not so crappy and ready for me?

I guess yoga. :(

Q: how do you focus on WORKING when the brain is sex-obsessed? (like mine today. I need help guys!)

*mot since the year 2000 anyway, (I meant)...when we dated before.

*NOT (omg I SUCK at thinking and typing today.)

laughing with you korywar...it really shows in your post that you really are distracted with this.lol

a. the answer is that i have no answer :( i just keep busy but that really doesn't solve the problem, it just keeps my muscles busy and the bills paid.

q. what constitutes AMAZING sex ...to you ?

A. Amazing sex to me within a relationship is when we both fully connect in all aspects (physically, emotionally, spiritually), when you can feel the strong bond, when you know there's nowhere else you rather be, when the level of trust you have in your partner allows you to be completely vulnerable to him/her both physically and emotionally.

Amazing sex in a casual sex situation to me is both people really enjoying it, getting pleasure from it, having fun with it and getting their physical needs fulfilled.

Q. What are your weekend plans?

you know, i think i have issues cuz it's that casual sex thing that stops me. Somehow i feel that sex should be saved for that special person but the only way to know if he's special is to date him and/or take time getting to know him...
getting to know him takes time, months years...
so that means maaaybe having sex very seldom and maybe even not at all...
until you find that special one...
or screwing just to screw.
I think i just fucked myself right in to old age.

a. bank deposit, pay rent, christmas lights, shop for a tree, finish organizing the 3rd floor, groceries, apologize to the guy who wanted to have sex last night, exercise/stretch and prolly a long hot bath.

q. have you heard of "the doing method" and OneTaste's coaching ?

No haven't heard of either.

What is your first memory (heard this on a tv show today) whatever it is, is what has shaped your life...I now what mine is, but not sure how it shaped my life...

A. My first memory is when my dog died, I was almost 3 years old. Maybe that's why I love animals and have worked with animal rescue most of my life. I always adopt the dogs that are considered "hard to place" dogs or un-adoptable dogs, ones with medical problems, behavioral problems, ones that were severely abused and old dogs.

Q. Did you ever try the 5 hour energy drink and if so, does it work.

A: yep, i have, and yes it works. however, i do not recommend taking it if you have even a minor heart issues. i have mitral valve prolapse and it was going crazy because of it. but i also drank 2 about 3 hours apart.

Q: are you ready for the holidays and which holiday do you celebrate?

I'm ready to close my eyes and open them up some time in mid January.. In the past I celebrated Christmas..

Do you enjoy baking

A. Nope

Q. Would you rather talk on the phone or text?

That's really cool about the animals that you care for leather.

Viv, now you got me wondering what mine is. I'll have to take some time to think on it.

a. texting is convienent at times but would rather use the phone.

q. what's your favorite meal ?

A
A salad
Ias long as have blue or feta chz or blue chz dressing on it...
CRIITCAL--With rasins/crasins on it ---CRITICAL-----
I can happily enjoy it

Q
When is the last time u pissed yourself on accident?
Lol to you!
Now if u have a serious/sad reason then no lol to you'

a: I haven't pissed on myself since as long as I can remember. However, not long ago I....eh, nevermind. :-S

q: Where would you like to picnic:
a). In the cool forest next to a gentle waterfall,
b). In a park with kites flying and kids playing,
c). High up on a mountain with an open, majestic view,
d). On a sunny beach with seagulls crying and waves crashing.