A (BedHog): My man's brighter than me. He understands things on an intuitive level that leave me scratching my head. Doesn't bother me.

A (Okie): Tootsie pops.

Q: What's the most (physically) painful thing that's ever happened to you?

a: Oh, that's a loaded question. Might require a PM. But "on the record", I'd say either 1) Needle stuck in my mugambos when I had a vascetomy, 2) Needle stuck in my wrist when I broke my hand, 3) When I split my pectoralis major on a skiing accident (first run of the first day of the trip), 4) When I get a severe leg cramp from basketball, 5) when my brother line-drived a golf-ball with a 2-iron from about 50 yards away to my elbow, 6) when some old ass line-drived a 3-wood at my back from about 50 yards away.

I know, I never gave birth so what the hell am I writing about?

Q: What was the HAPPIEST day of your life?

A: I don't think I can pick just one. The obvious ones are the births of my kids. Close seconds are the days I found out I was pregnant both times, since conceiving was the biggest challenge of my life. Also, my parents went missing when I was in college - I mean like officially "missing people" and the day they were found and I spoke to my mom is definitely right up there on the list as well.

Q: Do you see that NASTY InterDry ad to your left, and are you completely grossed out by it like I am?

A: nope, dont see it, just some bald dude advertising a 30 night sleep challenge.

Q:: do you adhere to absolutes, like once a loser always a loser, etc etc

A: In some ways, yes. I learned the hard way that a person's core character does NOT change. They can alter some outward behaviors, but they are who they are.

A: Do you have any friends who are being unfaithful to their partners?

A: not that I know of

Q: What kinds of thoughts sometimes keep you up at night?

A. What the hell have I done with my life? Am I ever going to change it for the better?

Q. What is your dream / goal for your life?

A: my dream is to be self sufficient... as in, not dependent on "the man" for a paycheck. Making celtic artwork and writing books. Being on my own schedule

Q: A question for a woman. When you masturbate, what do you think of?

A. It depends on where my mind goes at the time. Partner is always involved in my fantasy and many times another man or woman (unknown people) are involved. I fantasize about our kinks but in my fantasies what we do is taken way beyond my/our boudaries. One of my favorite fantasies is partner sharing me with another Dom or being a submissive participant at a dungeon party but that's for fantasy only, not something He/i would do in RL.

Q. Is there any fantasy or desire you won't tell your partner (or previous partner if you don't have one now) out of fear of being put down for it or made to feel wrong for having it?

A: yes ...oh I guess you might want to know what it is? ....Well I'm not sure why? It would probably be awkward if it were a reality? It might not even be that unusual? or maybe it is? It's probably not too nice to women? It's not a monogamous fantasy. ...but - well... I have fantasized about having 3 women bent over in front of me doggy style with nice back sides and luscious moist v's just there for me to sample as I pleased up and down the line up. There - I'm probably just a typical male dog or pig or whatever ...there you go. I've never admitted that to anyone before, and now I do online. Interesting world.

Q: Repeat Leather's question again because it's a good one!

@arem you're funny. I think that's a very common male fantasy, nothing wrong with it!

A: Currently I have a 3some fantasy I don't want to share with my partner because it involves a particular real-life person.

Q: What's a fantasy you've actually made a reality?

a: Well it's not quite reality yet, but my fantasy is to get the dishes done. So close...so very, very close.

q: do you avoid answering questions directly?

A: Well, sometimes I have to think really long and hard about a question, especialy if it's one that's very probing, one that's very deep, pushing my limits . . .

Q: Was that answer good for you?

a: YES!

q: May I have the check please? QUICKLY?

A: sure. here you go. lol.

Q: how far would you be willing to drive for great sex?