Healthy Sex Support Group
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OK, I worked with this little red-hot Latin chili pepper last weekend. While I know fraternizing with coworkers is a no-no, there were definitely some sparks and some interest, on her part as well as mine. We hit it off, we talked, she laughed at my silly jokes. But, I found, when I had to get back to work, she seemed annoyed! She's very young, probably early 20s. Probably shouldn't even be fishing in that pond, but, what can I tell ya, I don't get out enough.
But I found myself addicted to that spicy, Latin "thing", you know, the temperament. Very sexy. Very intoxicating. If I keep it funny, I'm cool with managing my temper. But, if she's a drama queen, it ain't gonna be funny for long.
My last relationship was very sweet, very comfortable, but didn't have that anger, that "spice". I'm beginning to think a healthy banter, as long as it's light-hearted, is a good thing.
? Dunno...just throwing it out there.
But I found myself addicted to that spicy, Latin "thing", you know, the temperament. Very sexy. Very intoxicating. If I keep it funny, I'm cool with managing my temper. But, if she's a drama queen, it ain't gonna be funny for long.
My last relationship was very sweet, very comfortable, but didn't have that anger, that "spice". I'm beginning to think a healthy banter, as long as it's light-hearted, is a good thing.
? Dunno...just throwing it out there.
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I need some plot development ideas for a book I'm writing. Here's the lead in:------@1630 she texted me, asking for gas money. "Are u at work? I have to work in a couple hours I don't have any gas barely I was wondering if u had 20$ by chance haven't been able to get any massages in I'm sorry to ask was just seeing"She agreed to meet me at the townhouse @1730. I asked her to call me before...
That's where anger needs to be tempered with a SENSE OF HUMOR. As long as I find her funny, I'll love her more than hate her. When the funny becomes incessant whining and bitching, well...
Too much jealous, 20-something, red-hot chili pepper might give you tummy pains and bad dreams.
I think a normal relationship will have it's share of banter back and forth as well as every other emotion. I think it is not normal to have someone be a "yes" person to your ever need. If I want someone to agree to my every whim I would stay at home and live with my mother...but even she gives me hell lol...
spice is good, especially if you are laid back.
Here some irony..You have to be yourself...(Not very promising advice from someone who is self professing as the King lol...I have my reasons)
IRL I am pretty laid back, and there are moments when "spicy" people bring the daredevil, or rebel, out of me...it is an adrenaline rush...and I enjoy it...and they may be like that...very "go go go" try anything type people, but those people also appreciate the laid back people because we keep them grounded.
I think it is give and take, and as long as you find it helpful and not hurtful and toxic in your life..I say go for it.