Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
I’ve always had an attraction to boys, but I also have a slight attraction to girls, but my guy attraction is much stronger. Am I gay or just really bisexual?
MaryContrary
I always wondered if "attraction" you speak of is friendship and not really sexual? I have women friends who I value as friends but would never have sex with. I only want guys to do that with. When I see a woman, I compare myself to them. I used to wonder if I was "put together right" so I looked at pictures. I'm not gay because I did that. Younger people are given an option now to chose what they want to be. That can be more confusing than knowing how you are built to be.
koolman
I would say...YES to both gay and bisexual...and that's ok. Embrace it and surely others will embrace you.
jubalpicket
Please do embrace it. I’m coming out of a 10 year marriage to a gay man and it ruined our friendship for life of course and wasted my time as well as his. Yes we had sex, (not often) but that doesn’t change his sexuality. He is still a gay man. I have a half brother that is gay, married a woman (she knew before they were married) and had three beautiful children. HE IS STILL A GAY MAN. Just know yourself, accept and love yourself and be honest with those you care for and the rest will fall into place. Good luck to you!
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