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Afraid of bdsm

QueenLady
QueenLady

I hope this is the right place to put this here but I’m deeply terrified of bdsm. There are a lot of reasons why but I want to make sure firstif this is the right place to say it. Thank you

QueenLady
QueenLady
Well can’t say I want to be submissive because I’m a very dominant person because my mother is an alpha, and I should have earlier please don’t say what your partner like or what you like or say they want it. It just made me cry but that’s my fault for not saying it earlier.
I guess I get what your meaning but I can’t tell the difference from fantasy to reality and there is much much more to the story and why I have those fears and other stuff.
But honestly I don’t think this post I made is helping me really. It’s not your fault because you don’t know me personally and your trying to help.
Is there a way I can close this post?
QueenLady
QueenLady
I found a way to help because I was talking to my sister about. The cope though is douchey but I don’t care it helps. It made me feel better.

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