Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
I have been in a relationship for 7 years now, not married, and we dont have sex. we did the first year we was together. when i bring it up he gets mad. he says its all in his head and that he has no desire to have sex. ive asked him to go to the doctor but he wont. no affection at all either. i thought he was cheating on me, so i followed him and come to find out he hasnt cheated. i think its ED but i dont know. im just tired of no sex or affection. im contemplating leaving him.
6 years is a very long time my husband withdrew for a week and that really effected me .
Does he masturbate or watch porn ?
He just stopped like it was no big deal, well it turned out to be a big deal for me.
I was beginning to die inside, being married one would think your partner is in it for life with you. Being denied affection are me feel inadequate, lonely and very very sad.
It is a very bad place to be in.
I don't know what to tell you other than know what your needs are.
Since leaving him I can at least feel better knowing that I am not being ignored by him.
I am beginning to feel better about myself and am focusing more on me.
I hope that you can talk with him and try to let him know how you feel.
I wish you the very best.