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anglvette 09/08/2012

I am a 31 years old female and haven't had but 3 lovers in my life. I am curious at how i may prepare for a penis that's bigger than what I'm used to? Only thing I can think of is buying a dildo that's bigger and practice but I was wondering if there is anything else I should try or look into. Foreplay and lots of lube would be another. I haven't been bottomed out before and the biggest penis I've had is about 6 inches. Any suggestions would be helpful and I know even if I can't take it all it's ok. I was hoping there may be other ways to get used to it. Thanks...

deleted_user 09/08/2012

The vagina is very accommodating. Unless we're talking major extremes one way or another, there shouldn't be a problem. I've had smaller than 6 inches, I've had larger than 6 inches, never had a problem feeling like it wasn't enough and never had a problem feeling like it was too much. Just like with any new sex partner, you both have to find what works best for the both of you.

MsViv 09/08/2012

I don't think there is any prep work. If you are with a guy with a bigger one then you are used too, you both have to work together for it to be comfortable for you.
Don't think it's something that you should worry about. I mean unless the guy is about 18" long and round as a deli salami, it really shouldn't be a problem.

MsViv 09/08/2012

And even then, he should know how to work it...

anglvette 09/08/2012

The guy I was referring to is 8-9 and being that 6 is about the largest I've had I was curious if there was anything else I could do but at the same time I guess it doesn't matter. I know that the vagina can be pretty accommodating and can change especially with depending on how worked up I am. Thanks for the input

Joe100 09/08/2012

This reminds me of a friend I have with a large penis. The only reason I know is because of a 3some. Anyway... he gets more gals, seems they all talk about it and compare notes and all want to fuck him.

The most surprising thing is he's not that good looking and he doesn't have much of a job. So I'm assuming they all want his cock.

I think a lot of lube and a lot of foreplay and you could probably fit a 10 inch cock in most pussies. They seem to stretch the size of bowling balls don't they when a child pops out.

Ok, maybe not. But 8 inches? that should't really be a problem. I'm sure there is a few guys on here that would practice with you if you needed some warmup.

deleted_user 09/08/2012

i agree with the other ladies.just relax and as long as you are comfortable with him and you are really wet should not be a problem.may just need to take it a little slow.
lucky you enjoy it!!!

deleted_user 09/09/2012

Leatherandlace is right. After all our Sacred Yonis can stretch to Birth a Baby Into Being!

anglvette 09/09/2012

Thanks for the replies...I politely decline Joe's offer to seek help....I may just be over worrying but we'll see how it goes. probably won't happen anytime soon but figured I would do a little bit more research. Again thanks for the replies and I love this board. Lots of interesting people and subjects. :)

nolaguy 09/09/2012

Alum! Make it smaller. Guys like it tight! Plus that will help keep him away from the backdoor.

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