@Mel, thanks for the thoughts. I agree that the connection is most important.

@merc, I def value ppl thoughts whatever they might be. This is the last time I will bring this topic up. We Average sized people, is why foreplay and oral were invented. theres thickness also lol! No everyone can be hung like a pornstar! :)

For me, size isn't an issue. I've never been with anyone who was really small so I'm going by the average size and a bit above average guys I've been with.

I wouldn't want to be with a guy that has a porn size dick. I've had my cervix pounded by the average size dick and that hurts. Having to have a guy be careful and not be able to get carried away so as not to hurt me because he's huge is going to make for boring intercourse IMO.

Intercourse also is not the "be-all end-all" in my sex life, there are so many other sex acts we engage in, we don't always have intercourse when we have sex. If intercourse was always the main event and the most important part in my sex life, then maybe size would matter to me.

To me, intercourse is just one sex act out of so many that if I were with a really small guy, as long as he's into everything else I'm into, we could work aroung his size.

Justin, if you have a normal average size penis then why are you so concered about what others think. I sure don't want a guy hung like a horse, but as long as he is normal in size and not small like you were getting at who really cares........ It doesn't matter what size you are, people love foreplay and oral. I might be the only one here but truly I think size is a really beat to death question since you know if you are small or not. At your age I'm sure you are quite away of your size compared to stats.

Nicely put Leather!!! I'd be bored to death with just intercourse.......

HA! Your response to the question, Merc42, makes me think this question is the male equiv of: 'do these pants make my butt look big?'
I'm going to laughing for a while now.

isn't the average size of a penis relative to what a woman has seen. And I don't know any women who keep a list of the penis sizes they've seen. That would be weird.
I think men are to obsessed and want to know if what they have is comparable to other men. Who really cares. you've all got what you got. Make the most of it.

@Dave you do to know how to measure your penis.

isn't the average size of a penis relative to what a woman has seen. And I don't know any women who keep a list of the penis sizes they've seen. That would be weird.
I think men are to obsessed and want to know if what they have is comparable to other men. Who really cares. you've all got what you got. Make the most of it.

@Dave you do to know how to measure your penis.

no, I don't know how to measure it, can someone show me?

I'm just glad you pointed out, right off the bat, that it was aimed at the ladies.

Bingo, you're right on Dave ;)

thanks everyone for contributing. opinions of others makes for some good Comic relief!! I think love conquers all!! thanx again have a great day and weekend:)

do these boxers make my penis look small?

Dave - whip it out and get yourself a tape measure. Or do yo need someone to show you how to use a tape measure? Don't go playing dumb.

If you don't know how to measure your pecker then maybe you need to be on a different board - Like sex 101 - if it's still around.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=etKVfmUXdw8

No worries Dave, I have little hands so it will look huge ;) hehe