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a guys size

JustinD
JustinD
This is aimed toward the females in the group.

Does a guys size really matter? I'm average( but wish i could be as big as RJ lol!), that why I probably asked this question, i know. I would like to here your opinions either way.
deleted_user
deleted_user
My GF likes it that I am taller then her, she says it makes her feel secure and protected.
deleted_user
deleted_user
To me, average is fine, I don't really care as long as he knows how to work it... I mean no extreme is nice, too small might not do the trick and too big might even hurt, but average is good, of course, we'd have to define what average is to you...
Dave17
Dave17
wait... size, as in height/weight? Or penis size?

Yeah, and women, WHAT DOES AVERAGE MEAN in terms of penis size?
I'm so confused by measurements... where do you measure from... and when..etc...
debmitchell
debmitchell
Ya know, I read somewhere that certain women's magazines experimented with nude pictures of men... when they dropped them, MALE readership dropped. I think men care much more about their size than women do. Have to agree with Melissa, you can't go wrong with average.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Perhaps those male "readers" were playing for the other team?
debmitchell
debmitchell
Perhaps... but my own experience with men I'm QUITE sure are interested in women bears it out... I have never cared about a man's size as much as he did lol.
JustinD
JustinD
Just so we're clear, Im talking about the size of the penis. I read a medical journal that said average size is between 5 1/4"-5 1/2"(when hard).

**If your thinking of being cruel Don't bother leaving comments!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
That one's snigger worthy, laylow!

*SNIGGER*
deleted_user
deleted_user
Ta! A Sugaree Snigger collected, my day is now complete!
JustinD
JustinD
Really im fine with my size. Im just carious how things would be different for me if i was larger. It what i was made with can't change it. Not really a major deal. Carius about others thought, thats all
deleted_user
deleted_user
Justin, I definitely think average is good. Really, it's all about the connection with the person, everything else should not be as important, at least that's my opinion.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yes, I need a man who is taller and stronger than I am ...... size is a big issue!!! If I don't feel secure then he doesn't have a chance.
deleted_user
deleted_user
What the hell, size does matter trust me. I know mostly all women but me will say it's how he uses it, but for me that is bullshit. My personal opinion is, size does matter and you better know how to use it too. I normally don't say a lot to size threads, but I'm tired of the same question over and over so, ya size matter for me.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Hey geezer, the Enunciation Proclamation is in full effect.
deleted_user
deleted_user
If they want 10" from me and want it to hurt...........Were doing it twice and I'll hit her on the way out.....................I'll never hit bottom but I'm going to strech the sides.