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Community Leaderbobinmaine
bobinmaine
If your ex asked you to be his or her FWB, would you do it and why? If you did anything like that in the past, how did it work out and is it still going on?

I just don't want to jump into something I will later regret so have made no decision yet.

Nearly 10 months without feeling the inside of a women's pussy is pretty hard on me (no pun intended)!

Your thoughts please,
Dave17
Dave17
It doesn't work out. Someone gets romantic feelings at some point and then everything falls apart in an ugly mess... and then you end up losing a friendship. It is heartbreaking.
LisaACOA
LisaACOA
RUN BOB RUN!! lol
deleted_user
deleted_user
Lisa, didn't you date a Bob at one time? Or you may still be with him. I've seen earlier posts where you mentioned being in love with a BOB.
Dave17
Dave17
most of the women here have a steamy relationship with BOB.

But sadly for bob up here in Maine, they mean BOB...

Battery Operated Boyfriend.

Sorry Bobinmaine.
HoratioKay
HoratioKay
Dare I ask what FWB means?
deleted_user
deleted_user
LOL Dave. I knew it was a pleasure device for a woman's clitoris, but I didn't know that it was an acronym for that. Just thought they gave it a generic name.
Dave17
Dave17
FWB=friends with benefits

Poor Bob, on "paper" it would appear that he is getting with every HSDS hottie here.

Yet it is only his plastic humming doppelganger.

sorry Bob.
debmitchell
debmitchell
I can't do the FWB thing, I need more than F before I'm comfortable with B. Just the way I am.

Every girl needs a good BOB ^_^
deleted_user
deleted_user
That's good to know, Deb. You're on my friends list. *rubs hands together*
debmitchell
debmitchell
Lol I said MORE THAN f, Woody, MORE THAN... :P
deleted_user
deleted_user
LOL, Lisa. After I finished the sentence "I'm comfortable with B", my little head took over and shut down the few existing neurons I have.
Firstfall
Firstfall
I think it depends on the relationship. I successfully did it once (many many years ago) with a man who was a friend for a good year before we started dating. We kinda discovered the most we had in common was great sex, so we broke up, but still met now & again just for some fun until one of us found someone else. Which also kinda occurred for each of us at about the same time.
But I tend to think more like a man, so maybe that is why it worked better for me?
LisaACOA
LisaACOA
@Woody I am not seeing anyone and I have never dated a guy named Bob. I have a BOB but it doesn't run on batteries... it plugs in the wall. BOB works great but I would much prefer the real thing. lol
deleted_user
deleted_user
Lisa, I understand. There's gotta be a guy or two near ya. Maybe it's a small town, but I can only imagine that a guy or two has asked you out? Maybe they weren't your type.
LisaACOA
LisaACOA
@ Woody An old boyfriend wants to go out with me again ; I have no desire to go out with him. There is a guy at church that likes me but he is not my type.