Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

4,510 Members

18,215 Posts

0 Online

DepressedRecluse 04/22/2017

I seriously need help...

I don't know what to do...

My husband and I haven't had sex in over two years!!!

During those two years I have satisfied my self through masturbation.

However, over the last four months, no matter what I do, I can't cum!!!

And I NEED to cum!!! I need that release...But I can't get there...I am soaked...Literally dripping wet...But I just can't climax!!!!

And it is driving me crazy!!! Among other things!!!

It's so bad...that I fantasize about raping my husband!!!

I just want to take him into my mouth and suck him and then just shove him inside of me and fuck him till I cum!!!

...But I can't! I'm not strong enough to overpower him like that. And I am pretty sure that if I tried anything...He would not be too happy...Considering he doesn't even want to me to touch him!!!

God... I don't know what to do!!! I am so effing horny...And I just spent a half hour in the bathroom masturbating for nothing!!!!!

DepressedRecluse 04/22/2017

...UGH!!!

I.AM sooo horny for my husband...

Bubbabiker 04/23/2017

May need to relax more? Under a lot of stress lately?

Try reading a erotic novel or watch porn to see if it helps.

And my god what is wrong with men today??!! I'm 54 and still want to bang my wife 24/7!

racinggirl 04/26/2017

Ummm.... I agree with Bubba, RELAX! We can tell you're uptight from your post, alone. Granted, with that situation, anyone would be... but that is most likely your problem.
Are you on new meds? Meds can cause issues exactly like this... specifically depression meds.
On top of that... Why on earth would you and your husband be in a relationship like this? (unless there is a medical reason beyond his control).

lostsoul72 04/26/2017

I would also say relax and don't think about the end product. Enjoy the feelings and Erotica is a great way to get things going too. Experiment some with things you like or have not tried, but thought you might like.

sexysub56 05/04/2017

I use glass cocks. One of them is curved to stimulate my Goddess Spot. They work.

refurb 05/27/2017

that is because you need
you are a needful thing
needfull sweet wet pussy
you need cock with a mushroom head
to pierce, pump, and pulse inside from your swollen pussy lips to your belly button
you need

sexysub56 05/27/2017

Why haven;t you had sex with your husband for such a long time?

geoyur77 05/30/2017

Try gentle, hold him in your hand while he is asleep, don't move just hold., lighter is better I fear you are too aggressive for him and he has turned to porn and master bation

AlexB 06/01/2017

I totally know how you feel...I am also very frustrated because my husband and I don't have sex.

He can't achieve an erection and I want so much to be able to hold him and feel him harden and then feel him inside me. But I know it isn't going to happen, it can't happen, no matter hard we try it just doesn't happen. He has tried on his own but even then can't get fully erect (he had an accident a few years ago and the medication has made him limp)....I am so frustrated! Even Viagra proved ineffective.

I know he loves me, and I feel kind of disloyal feeling the way I do BUT I want so very much to be f^cked.

Join the Conversation