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OldCodger 04/03/2015

What are yours?

Mine are:

1- Kindness

2- Selflessness

3- Respectfulness

rosykitten 04/08/2015

Kindness, orderliness and passionate

Quietstorm17 04/09/2015

1. Loyal
2. Kind
3. Dependable

Like onmymind said, easy for someone to take for granted or take advantage of

DarkGypsyG 04/09/2015

my finest qualities (all refined over the years) are rarely appreciated ...

1. unabashed honesty / inability to lie

2. communication & observation skills

3. self-awareness

i have to add one more cause it is my personal fave-

4. sense of humor (like knowing i always sound pretentious)

jenlozi 04/09/2015

I think my good qualities end up being my faults.

1. I see the good in people before the bad. 9 even when they are more bad then good)
2. unabashed honesty / inability to lie
3. It ercks me when people are judgemental without walking in someones shoes'

OldCodger 04/09/2015

It is common jenlozi for healthy traits to be exploited by other selfish people who have no healthy traits to speak of themselves.

MonkeyB0y 04/14/2015

Selflessness

Honest

Kind

Aronia 04/14/2015

in my culture, it is considered extremely inappropriate to put yourself on a pedestal, especially in public.. Therefore I have not commented on this thread.
I have no problem with other people doing it, I just can't bring myself to do it.

OldCodger 04/14/2015

It isn't a sin to speak highly of yourself, it is a sin however if you speak poorly of yourself, better to speak good of yourself than bad then. Back to you Aronia.

koolman 04/15/2015

Go ahead, Aronia, brag a little.

onmymind2000 04/18/2015

Between your ??? thread and the Abuse group, I would reassess my "finest" qualities

OldCodger 04/19/2015

I am a victim of abuse Onmymind2000 (and I still am), and because of I have no fear about speaking my mind.

You should have addressed this issue in that forum agreed?

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