Healthy Relationships Support Group

No relationship is perfect. A long-term relationship requires constant effort to understand each other, fix misunderstandings, solve problems and continue to grow as both individuals change and evolve. How we deal with our misunderstandings is the focus of this community. Join us to find support, get advice, and share your experience with your relationship.

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OldCodger 04/03/2015

What are yours?

Mine are:

1- Kindness

2- Selflessness

3- Respectfulness

foundlove 04/04/2015

1. Intelligent

2. Good communication

3. Respect

jaymee4647 04/04/2015

1. Honest
2. Trustworthy
3. Dependable

Giselle123 04/04/2015

I am kind, loving and honest.

onmymind2000 04/04/2015

1.Honest
2.Kind
3. Loyal

However, my 3 best qualities are also the ones easiest to take advantage of such as I did when I allowed myself to get used like a dirty rag and tossed like yesterdays recycling.

1Tater 04/05/2015

Smart
Independent
Trustworthy

CHRISTOPHER310 04/05/2015

1- Breathing

2- Sleeping

3- Easy access to my wallet and bank accounts

17butterfly49 04/06/2015

Kind, loving, and responsible

elleray37 04/06/2015

polite/kind, responsible, and intellegent

ShastaSue 04/06/2015

Does anyone possess great qualities 24/7?

I know I don't.

For any great quality I say I possess, I'll be able to think of a time that I didn't possess it, Know what I mean??

So Yeah.. there you have it.

But it's interesting reading about how people see themselves. You Go! Healthy Relationship peeps! lol

OldCodger 04/07/2015

Research has revealed that traits change little over one's lifespan, so yes traits do exist 24/7.

ShastaSue 04/07/2015

lol old codger.

What I mean is.... would your ex wife agree with YOUR assessment of YOUR finest qualities?

We all like to see ourselves through rose colored glasses.

Just Sayin!

yorman1 04/07/2015

Yep Shasta, add the drugs and alcohol to the rose colored glasses and you will find the perfect qualities in a person....lol

ShastaSue 04/07/2015

Oh if it were only that easy, Yorman!

koolman 04/07/2015

1. Creative/artistic in audio, visual and music arts, capable of capturing and creating great beauty.

2. Intelligent in technical matters, able to grasp how things work.

2. Empathy/understanding.

OldCodger 04/08/2015

ShastaSue I have more than three fine qualities, so I'm guessing my ex would highlight those, it of course being a matter of her taste. The sad thing is though I couldn't repay the compliment because nothing about her was fine, and that be the truth if you are able to believe me.

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