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I have a question I have been with someone for a year and a half the relationship is going no were, and want to end it since its almost Xmas do I wait till after or when would be the best time to end the relationship.
deleted_user
If you wait for the 'best time' to end a relationship, you could be waiting forever for the best time. It's never easy ending a relationship, the best time IMO is when you know the relationship has to end so why put off the inevitable?
drbeaker
Totally agree with leather
deleted_user
Tough call on this one but if you are going to do it do it sooner rather than later. Hope she hasn't made big plans and gotten you a gift etc. the same for New Years- really a sucky time of year to be getting dumped but it's also a really bad time of year to be pretending too.
deleted_user
Yeah I agree. My boyfriend just broke up with me early this week. I hadn't gotten him anything yet, but it's not a fun time of year for that. But there isn't a right time. My suggestion is it's going to hurt no matter when it is. You have to do it when it's best for you. She isn't going to feel better before or after. In my opinion best now as why have the memory of spending the holidays together only to be apart after.
mysteryman73
Thanks everyone just see no point to continue a relationship that is going nowhere.
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