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lorriejean
lorriejean
BEING TREATED BADLY, JUST BECAUSE YOU WONT TO KEEP,YOUR HOUSE, THE MONEY, THE CAR THR BANK ACCOUNTS,,,,,WHY EXCEPT BEING USED......


I DONT CARE IF I DONT GET A RESPONSE
I JUST WONT PEOPLE TO THINK..........
Goof
Goof
I have a saying.....

no one can take advantage of you....UNLESS you let them....

instead of bitching about the problem...either fix it...or get out...life is too short to be miserable...
lorriejean
lorriejean
that's what i have been, tell her it's a problem so let that cat go;;;;;;;;and your right is to short and the world is very, very, angry how sad...
lorriejean
lorriejean
it's sad when people come to ds for help and confort, and some people will try to make you feel like you dont belong
i didnot know we were her to be B_____ing my freind felt bad,,,,,,,,,,
lorriejean
lorriejean
BUMP;
deleted_user
deleted_user
I probably depends on the price of those items if you tolerate being treated badly.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I cant say anything I get itced at ecause I dont keep the house the way HE wants it and I we dont have a ton of money in te ank like HE thins we should... Well I told HIM today well MFer I work get up off your ass and either claen the house or get a G*D DAMN job
page
page
Sometimes people need a place to live, a car to get from place to place, and money to buy food. If everyone could find a way to have these needs met, they probably wouldn't accept being treated badly.
deleted_user
deleted_user
And page it is going to get worse as time passes in the next year for people to maintain their personal status quo as it were. It is already a tremendous challenge for a great many people to maintain shelter and have enough food to eat.

Lorrijean some people hope for things to get better others live in fear of change and then others really are like you said accepting being used for things.

Goof also makes a valid point, life is too short to be miserable and sometimes the misery is self inflicted and it is us who need changing as much as our environments. Boundaries speak to me about no one taking advantage of a person, and some people simply need to learn to have personal boundaries.

Some people are so at a lost in trying to cope with what is going on that they don't have the focus to make changes even on a personal level. But what everyone needs in times of struggles is a good friend to talk to who is able to support them without judging them for what they are or are not doing, which can be very difficult to do.