If you still have children at home, why not joing "Parent Without Partner" They are a fun group, it's inexpensive and in the past I've met some very interesting and nice people.

I do not think "looking" is the right terminology. I would say just be "aware and open" to the possibilities. Don't make it a priority in your life, just an option. When I go to places I like being at, like Poetry Lounges or Theatres, I now look at people straight in the eyes who look at me...and then I smile at them. If you meet someone who actually stops to speak to you and you feel that your heart is resonating with theirs...there are no guarantees but showing up for the relationship is always the first step. I also pray, ask God or what ever your Higher Power is to please send you the right one! I now pray that "only" the right one come into my space...even if it is for just conversation. I don't do the gamers anymore. It is just a waste of time. So today go somewhere where you really like being, maybe the museum, movies, bike ride, gym or even to work and just be aware...L

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Don't look at all...but be open...and that's usually when it happens.

Just go about your normal activities, love yourself, then welcome someone cute into your heart when they present themselves in your path, with a funny remark and a sweet smile.

Supermarkets are great, as are exercise groups or gyms. Lot nicer than bars or clubs, not only for socializing, but your own health as well. Churches too, if you can find a preacher and congregation that is laid-back (extremists, on either side of the fence, God's or the Devil's, scare the hell out of me).

Found mine online too...I had to go through a lot of weird/non compatable ones but he actually found ME! I thank him all the time for finding me...

My ex boyfriends parents met at a bar. They talked for hours and started dating and eventually fell in love and have been together for about 30 years or so. They're still in love.

You never know.