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When walking away is not the answer

sterotype
sterotype

I married tge person who I love we been togather for 15 years and we just got married I marred him know that he made a baby with another women and now the thought of him mess with is in my haed ever time that he leave the house I set my goals with him and it eas working for awhile but know he starting to stay out later and I feel like totally disconnect between us Iam afread that he back involved with her again I just looking for a way to have a healthy relationship

arfie
arfie
Hello Sterotype. Welcome to DS.

Jealousy and envy are mean demons. For sure, they won't lead you to a healthy relationship. Jealousy and envy specialize in destruction. When those mean demons rear their ugly heads in my relationships, I take the focus off the relationships and get to work on my own insecurities which cause me to get jealous and envious in the first place.

Gentle support while you figure you own case.
sterotype
sterotype
Thank you I pray and ask god to help me and he just did thank you I will work on my own demons
arfie
arfie
Those demons are easier to manage with support from folks who are managing similar demons. Vent freely. Vent often.

Listening. . .
sterotype
sterotype
I look to god for my higer power I dont know where to becan at to releases these demons
sterotype
sterotype
Today is a good day for me and my husband so far Itooktge invice and we talk so now he had a better understanding about how I feel so we just have to take one day at a time and just set the time aside and I will on my end thank for all the support
arfie
arfie
Yay you for having that talk with hubby. Double yay that it helped you feel better.

You have already begun "releasing" those demons by talking about them here. Demons hate public exposure. Keep venting. Still listening. . .

Taking it one day at a time is the plan that works for me. Yesterday is gone and tomorrow never arrives. Today is all I really have to work with.
sterotype
sterotype
Thanks arfie we are going to the movies tonite it been a long time since we been out on a date thanks for all the advice
Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD
It's nice that you've been having a positive couple of days.... I hope that you have a great movie night!!….xo
sterotype
sterotype
Hi everyone I did not know me shearing my feeling my thought would make me see thing differently me and my husban have been haven talk even night and if feel so go to be able to just have him listen to and respect my feeling
SarafinaJane
SarafinaJane
It's really important to share your feelings and to be listened to. Try to be aware of the times that are best to talk ~like you might not want to talk the minute he comes in the door from work for example. It is important for you and your husband to enjoy each others company. Sometimes it doesn't take a lot of money. I remember all the walks I took with my fiance and all the long talks we had about everything under the sun. It's about making beautiful memories together. I didn't know at the time that those were some of my fondest memories of our relationship. Good luck!!
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