That is very little to go on, but I would suggest you focus on "first things first" - the care of your children (how old?) and counseling/therapy for yourself.

I’m not wanting to violate Hippa and say too much. My children are 6 and soon to be 8. I’m afraid that therapy for my situation won’t help.....marriage counseling takes two to tango!

Years ago I went through something like this. Again, not much info.... What I found is that I was living for some future scenario where everything would be ‘normal’ The truth is that things change and we need to change with them. You can make a choice here: you can continue to believe that you are in some sort of crisis or you can shift your perception and just live your life with as much grace as you can. Which choice will your kids respond to best?
I think the above advice was counseling for you. I assume that your wife is doing her own. Best of luck

Timothy,

I should have been more explicit. Individual counseling/therapy for yourself. And given the age of your children, counseling for them as well perhaps.

I’m unable to fine time, making lunch for my little ones now. I’m afraid I will do the best I can.....for now. Wife is blocked.....it’s me time!

Welcome to DS Timothy..... This would be a lot at sure a trying time in the world....
This is a good place to come..... Big hug.... I'm glad that you've found us.....xo

Thanks for all the help. I’m communicating through channels. Trying not to snoop.....

I'm not sure what you mean Timothy..... Read posts or hugs if they're open even journals if they're public

Jump into post and comment if you'd like to ... We appreciate everyone.... Big hug....xo

HIPPA does not mean you can't give more information. HIPPA is the law that governs disclosure of medical information by medical professionals. But it sounds like your wife has some serious problems and you are contemplating divorce. If this is so, please get to a good divorce attorney and find out your rights and obligations and get some custody arrangements down on paper and judge approved. I would think counseling for your kids and yourself would help navigate the process and the feelings. I'd also say when your kids talk about their feelings, let them. Don't negate their feelings. There is a good book, How to Talk so Kids Listen and Listen so Kids Talk. When we bottle up our feelings or have them negated ("look on the bright side" or "don't worry"), then it hangs with us for a long time and with children, maybe they act out. Perhaps give yourself credit for doing all you are doing for the kids and keeping all the balls up in the air.

Speak to your wife and stay in communication in the relationship.