You can't just be what "men" want- you have to be you and find the guy that enjoys the same things you do, the one that has the same goals in life that you do. We all have our likes and dislikes and maybe at different times in our lives we want different things. I know a guy who only ever dated girls that were very skinny and had big boobs- that is NOT the kind of woman that he ended up marrying!
Focus on yourself-know yourself and what you are looking for in a guy- one that likes children? enjoys wind surfing? rock climbing? sitting on the couch watching scary movies and eating popcorn?
You have to be true to yourself or you won't be happy and things won't work out. If a guy only wants a skinny girl and you starve yourself to be that ideal- are you going to be happy? If you were told men only liked red heads would you color your hair red for the rest of your life?
Women have believed that men like big boobs, the bigger the better so they have gotten breast implants and then find a guy who says " these feel weird, I like natural breasts not fake ones"!

Men are all different and want different things.

to be honest you dont know what you are going to get ,but if you find the person you like ask , yourself do i like what im getting and if the answer is no keep it moving.I'm sure it will work out find your perfect and you know it

All different men like different things.

Just be you!

From what you wrote you are a catch. But you have to believe you our a great catch as well. You sound like the total package. If you run enter races, if you spirtial go to church. I can only speak for myself but a woman being honest, assertive, playing a little hard to get (but not to hard lol), and willing to give me space (us guys like are man gave time) are traits I like to see in a woman. I hope this helps.

Any relationship takes effort and patience and must NEVER be one sided. A good man wants a woman who is honest, faithful and understanding, never judgemental or critical of his imperfections. Be his best friend, dont try to change him. But never let him have the credit cards! Lol. Good luck.

The right one will take you as your are. Ugly, pretty. Fat, skinny. Smart, not so smart.

Just be you. Never change for somebody else.

Different guys want different things. I have come across guys who want "slutty" types who wear tight skimpy clothing to accentuate their curves, like Rihanna and Nicki Minaj, and I have come across guys who like the sweet "girl next door" types who are not too "sexy" but are cute and attractive in a different way.

Can't speak for "men" in general, but this man (me) wants a woman who appreciates peace and quiet, and knows how to relax and create a warm atmosphere.

I've been spending so much time, of necessity, working, to bring in bucks that, honestly, I haven't had time to think about what I want in a woman!

I suppose, beyond visual stimulation, I'd like to be with a woman who touches my core brilliance (or my core insanity) and nourishes, encourages, nurtures my creative side.

And I suppose that "creative side", when it comes to a woman, boils down to sexual stimulation and exploration.

I suppose I like an athletic body, a kinky, freaky, deviant mind, a soul that runs the gamut, from being bubbly to being dark and troubled. In short, a genuine, authentic human being, who happens to be female.

I like all kinds of things in a woman, and it really depends on the woman. My advice is to do the best with what you have and look for the man that appreciates that.

Like the others say, there is no ONE THING a man wants. We are just as different in our tastes as women are.