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I know it's not the best way to meet someone, but I met my boyfriend on Fortnite. He has been having trust issues cause people are using him and they are backstabbing him. I am the only person he trusts and apparently that isn't enough to keep him on Fortnite. 2 days ago, I was playing with him and his friends. My big brother joined and my boyfriend got a little upset because my brother stole his friends. My boyfriend said he was going to quit Fortnite and I don't know what to do. He hasn't been on and I have no other way of contacting him. I love him and I cant stop thinking about him. I don't know what to do... I miss him. We have been in a healthy relationship and we have been dating for 3-4 months. I don't want it to end because he is having trust issues. I really don't want to loose him.
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I haven't written in my diary on my computer since May because I thought that my computer was dying. I got away from writing but my computer is hanging in there. I think that I will start writing in it again. It's so therapeutic.
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Years ago, I won a mirrored armoire from my job. It's in my bedroom but I rarely stand in front of it. Yesterday, I had to have a dexascan done so I had to change into a gown. There was a full length mirror in the changing room. I'm aware that I gained 5 to 7 pounds over the last year from cheating on Keto but I didn't know what it looked like. It was a reality check.
Don’t let someone else’s insecurity and immaturity turn you inside out. You will be ok.
Don't worry, he'll be back on the game very soon. I've heard those games are fun and addicting, and I am sure he will be back on, probably even today....??
Meanwhile, keep busy with your school work, family, other friends in real life, hobbies, and taking care of yourself in general.
Do you think this lack of trust, constant conflict, drama drama drama is normal behavior? For many it is normal but that is not a healthy relationship.
I know you are excited and happy to have someone "love" you but this is not really love, dear friend. A person who has a loving soul doesn't argue, have conflict, hate other people, etc. Take care, think clearly, don't cling to someone this immature and think it is healthy. You matter and deserve more or better. Be wise, be self loving, be self protective.
The issue is you are both very young and still in the process of maturing. This kind of silliness is part of that. I’m not trying to be condescending about your age or diminish your feelings but it’s the reality. Good lord a person’s brain doesn’t fully develop until mid 20s.
With that said, as an adult, I’m a little uncomfortable giving someone else’s barely teenage kid relationship advice on the internet so I’m ducking out on this one.
If not, then it's just an online gaming friendship.
Lots of people have online gaming friends, and I don't see anything wrong with that. As long as you and he keep it online only. How old is he???
You don't need a boyfriend so young. Make friends, that's fine. You see how it made you upset yesterday? If you two are just friends, you wouldn't get upset about what he does or doesn't do.
Don't be in such a hurry to grow up! :-)
Make sure that your parents know that you are talking to this guy.
What concerns me is that there are 50 year old guys playing video games, too. And they can say they are 15 years old, who would know?? Do you want to be talking to a 50 year old man? Better if you find out the truth now, then later.
Tell your parents you are talking to this person and see what they think about it and then do as your parents say. Until you are 18 years old, you DO have to follow what your parents say.
You need to be careful.