3 women out of half the population constitute MOST?

You're taking impersonal situations personally here. Are these real, or pretend internet dating people? Internet people don't count because they aren't real until you meet them.

Two of the people I know, and one I was talking thur online dating.

yea. was gonna ask how u met them. you can count on that happening a lot with the online scene.
I myself there were times when I.was supposed to meet someone new and id chicken out. either cause I was nervous or.self esteem issues like what if he doesn't like me or I look too fat / shitty today...
don't take it.too.personally.
it sucks when people can't even give you a heads up that they've changed their mind

The one that bothered me is Saturday, I asked someone if they wanted to do something they said yes. Then they don't show up, and ignore me on facebook, even thou I can see them on facebook chat. I mean they didn't want to go, why say yes, and then not show up.

some people are just inconsiderate. I have a friend (used to be my best friend) that for no particular reason ignores all my fb messages/ texts... it irritates me to no end. at least have the curtosy to say your busy. . .

That's my point, if something happens and they can't go, that's ok but at least tell me.

Maybe she felt put on the spot when you asked her, and was worried about feeling bad for saying no.
Then was too much of a coward to tell you she couldnt make it.
Not the type of woman to get your knickers in a knot over.
Weeding out the icky ones, thats all.

I'm not proud of it, but I've stood people up before.

One was an online thing: I agreed to meet; took pains with my appearance; drove all the way to the agreed upon destination and then chickened out. I wish I would have called it off and/or apolozied after wards, but I did neither. Instead, I deleted all of his contact info and blocked him. I still regret my behavior. I don't know why but I went into self protection mode at his expense.

One other time, I was semi-dating the guy. I liked his looks, but was on the fence on whether or not I liked him. We had set up a date and I came over to his apartment. He was not there. I waited for about 20 minutes and texted him. He said he was running late and would be there soon. I waited 20 minutes more and walked out of his life. I don't regret that one too much. Again, I wish I had more nerve to confront him, but I didn't.

Insecurity is what drove me...

Delete da bitch from FB then.

If someone makes an arrangement and bails with no courtesy call F. 'Em. You're a decent guy and deserve better than that.

Best line of the day: "weeding out the icky ones"

GOLD STAR. You brought a smile to my face today with that and I needed it badly.

I did delete her