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well last night it happend.
me and paul sat down and spoke to eiachother. he told me he was leaving on the weekend and i said ok.
we both said that we both were not happy. and that its best we call it a day. we both felt as if we had just become friends, rather than seeing eachother as partners.
there was no awkwardness at all its was fine and we were just acting like friends.
he stayed at his dads and i went to my mums.
and last night i was laughing and joking, because i happy and new it was for the best and i dont feel the same way about him anymore.
so why the fuck today am i crying. i know it was the right thing to do. and im annoyed with myself for getting upset.
i be ok one minute and then the next i be crying,
everytime i answer the phone i cry.
god its so frustrateing.
me and paul sat down and spoke to eiachother. he told me he was leaving on the weekend and i said ok.
we both said that we both were not happy. and that its best we call it a day. we both felt as if we had just become friends, rather than seeing eachother as partners.
there was no awkwardness at all its was fine and we were just acting like friends.
he stayed at his dads and i went to my mums.
and last night i was laughing and joking, because i happy and new it was for the best and i dont feel the same way about him anymore.
so why the fuck today am i crying. i know it was the right thing to do. and im annoyed with myself for getting upset.
i be ok one minute and then the next i be crying,
everytime i answer the phone i cry.
god its so frustrateing.
deleted_user
i dont know how long you have been with him. maybe its losing i dont know routine i dont think thats the right word. but having hime around?
deleted_user
Those are normal emotions. We can know that to leave a relationship is the right thing but it still hurts to know that things are over. Get your crying out so you can move on.!
vickycarter
we had been together for 2 and a half years and were engaged x
deleted_user
Vicky, I hope and pray your ok. I read your post on the breakup group. Life is worth living. Please respond to us, we are worried sick about you.
koolman
"Friends" is not enough. We want deeper feelings of affection, and now they're gone. It's normal to cry. I'm sure he's feeling the same way. Give it time. At the very least, you're in each other's lives as friends. Keep talking. In time you'll either resolve whatever issues made things not work, or you'll find other people you're more compatible with.
deleted_user
Its the end of an era. You're bound to mourn for what you once had; thats healthy hun.
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