Healthy Relationships Support Group
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hi , i've been a member for years but never really looked here or posted anything
well i think my relationship is on it's last legs, the bf doesn't think so but i've had just about enough, he thinks we will live together for the rest of our lives but doesn't want to get intimate with me, it 's been that way for years now he swore me to secrecy not to tell anyone i'm at my wits end
i had an affair last year that i feel guilty about i guess i just needed to feel wanted and the guy wants me to continue seeing him
i feel like taking drugs again (clean 6 years)
we just moved to a bought house, i told him just to leave me were i was but he insisted i come here too. i feel so weak and i'm broke but i think i need to move on with life and get some love or just be alone there is nothing worse than craving love from someone who won't look at you and other people are asking you but you can't do anything with them cause your in a sham of a non-fkn relationship
i love ed my bf very much but it's one sided, he is very good to me and i will miss that tremendously we are like flatmates but if i want another guy i've to move out.
i live in a foreign country and all this thinking makes me just want to go home but that is not a good move financially and i don't really know what i'm doing here now anyway since i came here for work and ended up on invalidity benefits,
i thought for years there was something wrong with him but then he tried to blame it on me but i think his 2 or3 beers a night is to blame
why could he not tell me for years what was up and then blame me !
i'm starting to hate all men,
now i just want sex and then they can piss off back to were they came from
oh what to do, we've been together 11 years and he won't come to a councillor with me should i just go ?
well i think my relationship is on it's last legs, the bf doesn't think so but i've had just about enough, he thinks we will live together for the rest of our lives but doesn't want to get intimate with me, it 's been that way for years now he swore me to secrecy not to tell anyone i'm at my wits end
i had an affair last year that i feel guilty about i guess i just needed to feel wanted and the guy wants me to continue seeing him
i feel like taking drugs again (clean 6 years)
we just moved to a bought house, i told him just to leave me were i was but he insisted i come here too. i feel so weak and i'm broke but i think i need to move on with life and get some love or just be alone there is nothing worse than craving love from someone who won't look at you and other people are asking you but you can't do anything with them cause your in a sham of a non-fkn relationship
i love ed my bf very much but it's one sided, he is very good to me and i will miss that tremendously we are like flatmates but if i want another guy i've to move out.
i live in a foreign country and all this thinking makes me just want to go home but that is not a good move financially and i don't really know what i'm doing here now anyway since i came here for work and ended up on invalidity benefits,
i thought for years there was something wrong with him but then he tried to blame it on me but i think his 2 or3 beers a night is to blame
why could he not tell me for years what was up and then blame me !
i'm starting to hate all men,
now i just want sex and then they can piss off back to were they came from
oh what to do, we've been together 11 years and he won't come to a councillor with me should i just go ?
i think what you are doing is smart. taking a step making and realizing that this may not be headed in a direction that you want for your life.
There is absolutely no reason to keep punishing yourself. When you decide you've had enough, take the financial fall. It's WELL worth it and won't be that way forever.
Hon, partnerships are supposed to be very unique and special. The partner we pick for a lifetime should make us feel happy and be very compatible to us. Yes, it's very hard to find, but it's better to keep searching than to give up your soul and settling into pure misery. This is your life! Do what you need to do to make it better.
No action means nothing but the month and date is going to change. Finding your happiness will be hard, but it's the change that only you can make.
((Hug))
Sending you strength and hope.
goodluck