Have you discussed it with him?

yes I have, his response is always just: "I'm not in the mood."

I think it's important to live a balanced life but every 6 months is nowhere near enough intimacy!

If it were me, I wouldn't stay in a relationship like that. Money is important but you also have to have your needs fulfilled as well.

I think you can do better.

Good Luck

Medications, stress, medical conditions etc can sometimes be the reason.

If you want to have sex, this is not going to work...

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I would ask him again to sit down and have a talk if you really love him... It's not normal for a young man to never want sex in a healthy relationship

Could there be something wrong either physically or mentally??… I would let him know that this isn't working for you the way things are..... Big hug

yes I have asked him and it's always the same thing....that he is not in the mood or is too tired

My girlfriend was in a similar situation she was open and honest with her partner and they had an open relationship allowing her to get the amount of sex she wanted. They ended up breaking up ( unrelated issues apparently) but she’s now an exotic dancer and is her happiest self

Sex or money. Why can't we have both? I guess because both require time and energy. Life is full of tough choices. It sounds like he's chosen money over sex as his life's priority. I don't know how much money he needs. Is he working all the time just to make bills or is he greedy, working to be a millionaire in the next 5 years? How much money does he need, do both of you need, to save for the future and be happy? What are his financial needs?
What are his material wants? What are yours?

When working for money takes all one's time and energy, of course one is going to be too tired for sex.

Are you doing anything to make money, to reduce his workload, so he has more time and energy to play?

I'd just like to add: Financial security is important, sure, but so is making the time for the finer things in life, and sex, appreciating each other's physical attractiveness, just lightening up, being playful, frolicking around, having a few laughs, enjoying those silky, scintillating physical sensations, is a very fine thing!

Yea it is and I miss it a lot. I was honest with him from the beginning and told him I'm a very sexually active person, that if I'm living with by then I would want to have sex daily. It's to the point where it has caused me to feel more alone because I don't have family or friends to go out with to take my mind off of the situation. Every time he rejects me it makes me feel so dead inside and I feel like at this point no one would want me in that way

The only financial needs I have are the basics, food gas and a roof over my head. I rarely ask him to buy me anything and don't ask for money. He is already wealthy, it is his own business he runs with computers. I know his needs are about money because he has two kids from a marriage and they are both almost college age, he has multiple cars, etc. In the two years we have been together I have cheated a few times because it would get to the point where it went too long and I needed some type of intimacy. I always told him immediately afterwards and he just said he didn't mind that much and that he understands because he never wants to sleep with me. I don't understand any of it and idk maybe he is just with me so he feels better about himself and younger and because he knows I have nowhere else to go. It is to the point where I cry myself to sleep and I think about painless ways to die. If there was a way out then I would take it, but with no support system I feel like I am on my own and that there is no way out

You can always get a job if you want to move on?... You don't have to stayed tied down in an unhappy relationship

Having sex once every 6 months doesn't sound like the norm in a fairly new relationship... What was it like in the first year?

Yea I know that is an option I am just terrified to try and fail. I don't have any money saved, the car I drive is one of his. I'm scared that I will go back to my old ways of stripping, I did that at 19 for a few years so I could really quickly get out of an abusive living situation with my adoptive family. I'm scared of becoming that person again. Until I get my degree in two years the only jobs I'm elegible for are entry level min wage type things, or waitressing but that can be touch and go too