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Retro jealousy is the concept in which someone feels jealousy and anxiety from their partners past. Does anyone else suffer from this?
I love my wife and she has never shown a single sign that she doesn't love me. She is so great to me and treats me so well but sometimes a story slips about her past and it really bothers me. She's been in tons of relationships and has had sex with many guys where as I'm the opposite. I have always been alone and she has been my first in everything. I don't get mad at her but I just feel so anxious and my gut just starts to turn. I don't know how describe it. I know she won't leave me but I get so jealous and hot and scared of the whole matter. The story that really isn't too descriptive at all and is never about that other guy lingers in my head and bothers me. I know it's me being very self conscious but I would love if anyone can help me with this issue.
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Hey All...I hope that you have a lovely, peaceful beginning of your weekI have a bunch of chores that need doing but may put them off til tomorrow and just hang out with my landlord/roomie todayWhat about you?...Anything special going on?Have a great day and take good care of you!!..Xo
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Once again I've had a fever today. I'm not going to the hospital because that's a huge waste of time but I did schedule a dr appointment for Wednesday afternoon.
Have you discussed your feelings with her?... How do these other men come up in the conversation?
Have you struggled with self esteem issues before?
Big hug... I'm sorry to see that you're struggling... xo