Are relationships all what they seem to be? I just want to get other people's opinions on the subject of having a partner. I have been in my first relationship for little over a year and im not sure if I can take much more of it lol. The idea of splitting everything I have 50/50 with someone who walked into my life randomly a year and a half ago really dosent make any sense. He tries but he dosent have much to give back it seems like im always picking up the slack. He recently got hurt in a "drinking" accident and ended up falling and cutting his leg open. He has been out of work for the last 2 months because of it and he did it all himself! unbelievable. He dosent have any family to fall back on so I feel like im the one whos always asking for a little extra help trying to make a living for the both of us. I don't really feel that "spark" anymore, almost as if everything that we had has run dry. It makes me sad because I do love him im just not sure where to go from here. To tell you the truth I miss my old life of living on my own at home trying to get my own insecurities on check, instead im stuck here worrying about his and mine on top of it. I just feel stuck at the moment. Any advise would be helpful.