Healthy Relationships Support Group
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For me, they are:
Sweet
Charming
Good Sense of Humor
As far as the eye candy, of course, it's important, but I'm focusing on finding those first three qualities before getting down to the flesh.
Sweet
Charming
Good Sense of Humor
As far as the eye candy, of course, it's important, but I'm focusing on finding those first three qualities before getting down to the flesh.
Joyride: "Has tools and knows how to use them". Love it!
Yeah, I like comedy rather than drama too. Drama (stress) OUTSIDE the relationship, particularly when it comes to dealing with the aggravation we have to deal with to make money, unless we're on disability, the condition, WHY we're on disability, bringing its own kind of stress, or are independently wealthy, is unavoidable, but, yeah, we've got to do our level best to keep such stress from intruding INSIDE the relationship, should keep that warm undercurrent of love and bliss going...it's so fragile.
SEXUAL TENSION is the only kind of "drama" I want in my relationship. If you don't have that, you've just got a friendship, which might be OK for some, but I want to be turned on sexually, and I want to turn on sexually. For me, that requires a certain aggression. Or maybe I haven't found someone I can totally relax with, feel comfortable in my sexuality with, and yet still feel excited with. Fine line between comfort and boredom. I do know that, when I bury my face into that fluffy mane of her hair...well...let's just say that the "tool" still works just fine.
Unfortunately, intellectually, we're not on the same page. All she talks about is money. I like money too, but money is a necessary evil, that is necessary to live on, that comes and goes. I'm more interested in love, beauty and creative exploration.
Continue discussing if you wish.