What are your thoughts on what else I'm going through? Saturday night my daughter cried and threw a tantrum because she couldn't sleep as she has been the last little bit. So anyways the guy I'm with said this is just like me ex and her kid and he wants no part of it.  He said that I will turn against him as blood is thicker and water. So anyways he took off for a bit and we didn't talk or haven't really spoke much to eachother since. So today after I got off work and before I picked my daughter up from school we chatted a bit. I said the fact he compared me to his ex hurt me. For several reasons, one she lied, cheated and her and her son threw him in jail. I said to him what reason would the police throw him in jail if only my daughter cries at night and we try to calm her down? He said people are funny. I said really? Then you don't know me at all. I am one of a kind(well at least I think so). When I left my abusive husband I didn't go after anything, I didn't press charges or put a restraining order on him. I continue to work with him so he see's his daughter.  My ex bf before that shoved me down and started to choke me the only thing I did was break two of his fingers to get myself free. I didn't charge him just cried and packed all night as we were together 11yrs. But he moved out I helped clean the house we were in. So I said to my current bf yup you'r right I'm just like your ex. I'm compassionate, caring, kind and considerate.  The way I look at things is just because I was done wrong to doesn't mean I have to ruin the other persons life. Just because I was abused or just because two people don't get along doesn't mean I have to be vindictive.  

So anyways back to my original story. So him and I spoke a bit. He went to his son's to work on a car. But that's been 5hrs ago and no text or response back to me saying "hi, how's things?". I'm very a bit upset. So just need to get peoples opinions. Thank you