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Not giving in to pressure in temptation

jessekay
jessekay

This is my first post on the relationship roster I am very proud of myself even though I am not been in the dating game for one year I passed up a little venture early this week because I do not want to degrade myself someone offered to get a room with me and I thought it was highly inappropriate and it just show how I'm lady like I was I feel like if you're going to date someone it should be somewhat traditional dinner and movie then  home  Or to lunch  and the art museum  or even a walk though a park at sunset it just makes sense to keep a traditional 

serenityspeaks
serenityspeaks
Good for you!! I feel exactly the same way. We are worth way more and even if single a while I want a quality relationship not just whatever. Be very proud!
finallyawakenow
finallyawakenow
Coming from a guy who loves sex and has been dating I completely agree with you. I would rather miss an opportunity for a one night stand and have a meaningful afternoon with a woman. To me the sex is the frosting on an already delicious cake.
Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD
I don't think that you should ever do anything that you don't want to do.... Big hug..... xo
jessekay
jessekay
Thank you and yes it means the world to me not to do that sort of thing I have too much pride I have a lot of morals I did the right thing
urbangardener
urbangardener
How wise you are, JesseKay. There are so many creeps and sociopaths and not to mention diseases. We have been sucked into the vortex of sex but no relationship and it doesn't serve anyone well. And we end feeling very down when we allow our bodies to get used for one night stands. You may face put downs from "dates" that want it to only be for sex but stick to your morals. You'll be happier in the long run and this will allow you to have clarity when a good potential partner shows up.
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