Hi I just joined the group I seen it posted on another person's profile.And it really hit me I need to work on having and building healthy relationship.Most of my relationships have been either toxic as I put it or just basically a emotional roller coaster for me.I am not putting all the blame on the people in my relationships I realize I have caused alot of my own problems as well and hope to be able to build and have healthy and positive relationships with others.I come from a very dysfunctional family and allow myself to be emotionally abused by my family members and used to their advantage.This has went on basically my entire life and when I try to make it stop I am made out to be the bad person.I also have been in abusive relationships with my past partners and as of right now I am not seeking a relationship shoot I am afraid to even allow someone to get close enough to be a friend.My concern is if I keep fearing people and pushing them away I am afraid I will not have anyone in life.And who knows I may end up pushing someone who really does care about me out of my life.Any advice would be greatly appreciated.I know that my issues are no easy fix but I also know that by not trying to work on them I wont get any better or may even get worse.Wolf