It is real, it is possible.. Nothing comes easy, but when you have this, it makes life absolutely great and you cant wait to wake up so it can start all over again in the morning..

Emotional compatibility.

Totally doable! But take your time...you've just gotten out of a bad relationship, take time for you first...

I don't thiunk its to much to ask. I just think the time spent waiting for it to happen will be a while. Ive felt the butterflys and excitement over a guys before. Ive found that that feeling comes by on average every 7 years or so you will come into contact with someone that makes you feel this way. Im 38 now so that's what 3- 4 times.
Ihave fallen in love with a guy4 times. That real crush feeling. And I still love them all now to this day. But theres 1 in particular I still hold a torch for but have had love since. So don't feel you will never love again because you can be in love with more than one person in your life.

If you've been waiting a long time be glad cause it means you haven't much longer to wait.

You just have to be realistic in your expectations

It doesn't happen everyday but it does happen. well that's what ive experienced anyway

1. Physically attractive. I'm not talking 'Drop Dead' looks, but without some level of physical attraction (and this differs, and sometimes greatly, from person to person) it's probably not going to work.

2. Emotional Stability

3. Kind, understanding and compassionate

4. Honest

5. Sense of humor, doesn't take the world too seriously, doesn't take things too personally

Be careful on the "honesty" requirement. We all say we want total honesty, but very few people can handle it.