Is he looking for a new job-? Or just lazily loafing around the house while you slave-?

If the latter, you have every right to be angry and resentful. If the latter, you have every right to kick him out. You'll be making the same amount of money, but will only have one mouth to feed, yours.

Ok first of all it's pretty easy to talk about someone who isnt there to defend themselves and second i'm not some loaf as you put it KOOLMAN lazing around the house while she is out working. I'm out looking for work evryday or applying online for jobs.

Also why dont you ask why Pamjit is overdrawn, oh it might have something to do with spending stuipd amounts of money on spas and 20 scrubs.

Ah, the boyfriend chimes in. Now I know. That's why I asked. Congratulations on the job-hunting. I know it's bone-dry out there.

Yep, there's always two sides. You two work it out. So you're both spending money. Well, the reason she's going for spas is because her job is stressful and sucks. A little love all around is in order here. Be supportive of each other.

Yeah my thoughts exactly be supportive of each other and not remind everyday on how they screwed up.

You know i'm doing my best hun and i'm always going to do my best for you, I want us to have a happy future together. I will always love you and care for you in the ways you deserve.

All my love now and forever

X

Yet another battle between partners who make the mistake of being on the same relationship/mental health/advice websites.

In my opinion this is not what the Healthy Relationships board needs.

It's nearly impossible to seek honest advice when your partner is on the site, because you end up filtering yourself for fear they will get upset.

It's nearly impossible to receive honest advice from others when your partner comes on and rips into the people who are responding.

If you both have to be here, can the two of you have a conversation and agree that you will not post on each others topics?

Now THAT would be healthy.

If it's of any help, I landed my current gig, wedding videography, of all things, which I'd been doing for years but had dried up at that time, while standing in line at the post office and asked the entire line of people, after online and newspaper classifieds led to nothing, if anybody knew of any job openings! This really aggressive marketing guy from Brooklyn told me he did wedding photography and we began a chat. Make everywhere you go a job interview, if you're not already.

But, frankly, Simon, I don't know why I'm even trying to help you when you're so hostile. Fuck off.

Might have something to do with why you're not acing a job interview.