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I know this is going to sound odd, weird, silly and probably something I should laugh off but its getting me really wound up now!
There is just us in the house by the way, no kids.
My Husband sits on the sofa watching TV with his willy in his hand, stroking himself. yes its standing up! hes not masturbating exactly.
When I ask him about it he says its 'comforting.'
Now my H with an erection is something I usually know how to handle (!) but just watching TV all the time, like for hours!!! He doesnt touch me, or try and ya know, get things hotter...
Whats a girl to do.?
I try and ignore it but I feel guilty about that and feel I should jump on it or do something sexual!!!
I feel like I just cant relax here! jeeez!
There is just us in the house by the way, no kids.
My Husband sits on the sofa watching TV with his willy in his hand, stroking himself. yes its standing up! hes not masturbating exactly.
When I ask him about it he says its 'comforting.'
Now my H with an erection is something I usually know how to handle (!) but just watching TV all the time, like for hours!!! He doesnt touch me, or try and ya know, get things hotter...
Whats a girl to do.?
I try and ignore it but I feel guilty about that and feel I should jump on it or do something sexual!!!
I feel like I just cant relax here! jeeez!
It is just so odd.
Maybe ask him what he wants you to do?
- theres only so much a girl can do with that in one night eh...then when its every night....?!!
Im just clueless how to deal with it.
My son used to also do this WHEN HE WAS FOUR!!!...hes grown out of it....clearly my OH hasnt...
So yeah.. I would offer him a banana.. I would grunt like a cave woman and maybe take your shirt off and try to spin your boobs in different directions.. You Tarzan ... ME Jane. * snort *
Christy!!!
and no he doesn't do it when we have company.not yet anyway!!!
lol!
He does it all the time.
We have a great sex life, sex every morning and sometimes in the afternoon too, its not like he's frustrated!!!
tbh it makes me feel Im only there for sex.
Yes possible.
His whole life has revolved around sex one way or another.
jeeez!
& then he'll be one of those grouchy old men who screams for you to bring his slippers and soup!