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I've been through so many traumatizing things, one thing after another. And, I just wanted to be on the right path in life, and I do not want to suffer anymore. I just want so bad to have things go right, so I can help people, and everything doesn't have to be all negative all the time. I hate the group home I am at right now, because it's like they don't want me to be on the right path at all. That is how I feel.
Because they are always so mean to me, behind my back, and to my face. It gets to the point where it is debilitating for me to even be around them. I just ask myself why I had to request being here in the first place. I get so fed up with all of their crap, and they don't let me vent my frustrations. Every time I do, they act like my feelings don't matter. I just need healthy relationships, plain and simple.. not this bs. So, I might just vent every night or something just to get this negativity out of my system.
Because they are always so mean to me, behind my back, and to my face. It gets to the point where it is debilitating for me to even be around them. I just ask myself why I had to request being here in the first place. I get so fed up with all of their crap, and they don't let me vent my frustrations. Every time I do, they act like my feelings don't matter. I just need healthy relationships, plain and simple.. not this bs. So, I might just vent every night or something just to get this negativity out of my system.
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Nationalday.com proclaims September 28th as Self Aware Day. I took a few snaps of various core values lists and tried to pick my top five core values (kinda hard to only pick 5). But here are my top picks. Feel free to list a few of yours too:GodLovePeaceStability Compassion
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Now that I am not talking to my whatever best friend, I realized that her life is full of drama. I had grown tired of hearing her stories about her boyfriend many months ago. She basically had been monopolizing conversations for that long too. She pretty much stopped asking me questions about me. I passed her in front of her classroom the other day and didn't even look at her. I am...
A lot of us have been thru some traumatizing things. Its tough to forget them, but if you can, that is when life starts to turn around. Forgetting about the tough stuff is the hard part. I dunno if you're familiar with YouTube personalities like Abraham Hicks, but I've found her to be very positive and helpful in sorting out how to move thru situations like the sounds of yours. Here's a link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_umB9X_cTHw
Hope this helps. ;->
Don't forget your past or where you came from; the reminder will help you get to where you want to go.
Wishing you well.
If you can, remove yourself, physically or emtionally, when they try to chip away at you. It will help you feel.more in control, and I think sometimes when people see that their crappy behavior doesn't cause a reaction, they dial it back.