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I've been through so many traumatizing things, one thing after another. And, I just wanted to be on the right path in life, and I do not want to suffer anymore. I just want so bad to have things go right, so I can help people, and everything doesn't have to be all negative all the time. I hate the group home I am at right now, because it's like they don't want me to be on the right path at all. That is how I feel.
Because they are always so mean to me, behind my back, and to my face. It gets to the point where it is debilitating for me to even be around them. I just ask myself why I had to request being here in the first place. I get so fed up with all of their crap, and they don't let me vent my frustrations. Every time I do, they act like my feelings don't matter. I just need healthy relationships, plain and simple.. not this bs. So, I might just vent every night or something just to get this negativity out of my system.
Because they are always so mean to me, behind my back, and to my face. It gets to the point where it is debilitating for me to even be around them. I just ask myself why I had to request being here in the first place. I get so fed up with all of their crap, and they don't let me vent my frustrations. Every time I do, they act like my feelings don't matter. I just need healthy relationships, plain and simple.. not this bs. So, I might just vent every night or something just to get this negativity out of my system.
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Look at what my best friend did with my picture!
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We all have 24 hours in a day. How we spend these hours is important. Watching a little bit of a video about how sitting affects us made me aware of how much sitting and laying down I do. Gonna have to work on that.Your turn. Tell me another truth.
A lot of us have been thru some traumatizing things. Its tough to forget them, but if you can, that is when life starts to turn around. Forgetting about the tough stuff is the hard part. I dunno if you're familiar with YouTube personalities like Abraham Hicks, but I've found her to be very positive and helpful in sorting out how to move thru situations like the sounds of yours. Here's a link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_umB9X_cTHw
Hope this helps. ;->
Don't forget your past or where you came from; the reminder will help you get to where you want to go.
Wishing you well.
If you can, remove yourself, physically or emtionally, when they try to chip away at you. It will help you feel.more in control, and I think sometimes when people see that their crappy behavior doesn't cause a reaction, they dial it back.