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I saw my brother cheating on her girlfriend.

cheatingbrother123
cheatingbrother123
 

Loyalty is a very important ingredient in a relationship. It takes honesty and trust to become a loyal partner to your girlfriend or boyfriend. But at this point of time, I’m questioning it already. My younger brother is cheating on her girlfriend. I saw him chatting with other personals in a foreign dating event, even exchanging messages about meeting in person and getting to know each other more. But the thing is, my brother is taken already! How could someone meet another woman if he’s in a relationship already? This makes me question relationships nowadays. Should I tell her girlfriend or just to talk to my brother instead?


 
arfie
arfie
Another possibility is to stay loyal to your own relationships and allow other people to sort their own. Just a possibility. . . It remains yours to sort.

Sorry your brother is not what you think he should be.

Gentle support while you sort, Cheatingbrother.
Breathe75
Breathe75
I would never say anything to his girlfriend. It is not my place to do it. It's his, if he wishes. I would definitely talk to him about it though, him being my brother. I'm close to my siblings so in my case I would never pretend I didn't see anything or I don't care. BUT, it is his choice what he will do about it.
Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD
I would stay out of his relationship.....

You don't know what goes on behind closed doors or what they've worked out between themselves

I would stay out of it if it were me..... xo
urbangardener
urbangardener
The person you have a problem with is your brother. That is the person you should express your opinion to if you feel you must say something. The other point is to really think about how is any of this your business? Do not question all relationships, the thing that bothers you is about your brother. He's not the man you thought he was. Sometimes this happens with our loved ones. They fall down and disappoint us sometimes.
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