Healthy Relationships Support Group
No relationship is perfect. A long-term relationship requires constant effort to understand each other, fix misunderstandings, solve problems and continue to grow as both individuals change and evolve. How we deal with our misunderstandings is the focus of this community. Join us to find support, get advice, and share your experience with your relationship.
I feel like I'm the only one who tries to keep my relationship going and I'm just tired of doing it. my boyfriend and I have been together 5 years and we have had sooo many ups and downs but I love this boy like crazy. we have been through really hard things and I feel like we are still together and that means something right? I don't know... I just want him to try harder and put in more effort, I want him to give me more of what I feel I deserve. now I am not saying I am perfect in anyway possible and I know I have a lot of issues I need to work on but I really feel like I try to do so much for him and he just does the bare minimum. I want him to want me more and to feel like I'm worth fighting for all the time DESPITE how long we have been together. I just wish he would see that he needs to try harder. He always ignores me when he is with his friends and doesn't feel the need to check his phone or talk to me KNOWING it bothers me when he does that.
I always just feel ignored and not important whenever his friends are around and I am so sick an tired of it. I just want attention and effort and I am NOT saying I need him to talk to me every second of the day but we dont see each other every day because we go to different schools so he is with his friends every single day so why can't you just talk to me or want to talk to me? I don't get it...
I just want to feel wanted...
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I'm feeling down,, and got alot on my mind right now. I got grief going on, on top my depression and anxiety and now I got to worry about somewhere to live since I can't afford living here since my mom passed. So many bad things have happened since my mom passed. One thing after another it seems. Yesterday our fence fell from a storm that hit, had to call someone to prop it up. Thank...
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Just wanted to give a thank you to Mid, Arfie, Malibumark, Greeneyes, Mlro, Girlincalif, and Suncloudjd! You all always have such helpful tips and advice, but I always forget to write on my posts when I see you post, lol. I would lose my head if it wasn't attached to my body, lol. Thank you all so much! I'm starting to use my AI app as a sounding board again. I used to use it as that before...
If I was doing something with a friend (s)... I doubt I would be making a phone call unless there was something really important that I had to say (for a moment) because I think it would be rude to my friend
That in no way would mean I didn't care a great deal for my partner nor would I want to hurt my partner....
Big hug....xo
he is with his friends every single day and i feel like he doesnt realize that i want and deserve attention.
we can never talk on the phone or facetime because he is always around them so i just feel very forgotten and alone.
Is this a complete online/phone relationship sweetie?
so we only see each other on breaks from school and if one of us goes to the others school.
If you're both seniors do you plan to be living in the same area after college....Is this your last year?
It's hard to work on a relationship when you aren't together especially when you're really young
Big hug.... If it's what you want I hope that you'll soon be able to work it out.....xo
No, that just means you are stubborn and hard-headed as hell.