I've been with this guy, and dating him for almost a year now. When we met he was in a long distance relationship with another girl, and then he used to always say he would breakup with her but he had obligations and was waiting for a right time. In the meanwhile he proposed to her and they got engaged, and i did not know about this. They also had a joint bank account which i was not aware of. He had hit me a couple of times when i forced him to break up with her. We were living together in the same apartment all the while. Later when one of the arguments heated up, i called this other girl and told everything about us, and that we have been living together. He has lied to me about everything in the past. After i told the other girl about us she broke up with him, and i did too. Later after 2 weeks he was back asking for a second chance with me, and moved back to my apartment. Things are ok now, and he doesnt lie to me (as far as i know) and he cares for me. He hasnt hit me at all since then. and he tells he has changed and i mean the life for him. He doesnt talk to the other girl anymore. He says he really loves me and want to be with me. He introduces me to all his friends as his fiancee even though we are not engaged yet. He is not afraid to tell everyone that we are dating. But sometimes when we have arguments, he starts to talk about my past and my exes and thinks that i might cheat on him. This makes me feel very bad and sometimes wonder if he even loves me or not. We talk about family, children and buying a house and all. But sometimes i get confused if he loves me or not.