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I'm going through a rough patch in my life. I have a lot of responsibility's that take up a lot of my time. I have depression, it's especially bad this time of the year because I also suffer from seasonal depression. Lately almost everyone I'm around irritates the hell out of me. I even have a fwb that I've known for a long time and usually get along with but even she is getting on my nerves. She is bisexual and often brings a friend that I can play with. very attractive and the 2 women she has brought over are both stunning but she comes over unannounced all the time and it pisses me off. Plus she told me a week ago that she wanted to have a more serious relationship with me but I told her from the beginning that I would never get serious with a bisexual woman. especially if she's already told me that she likes to be with women more than guys. She is starting to create unnecassary drama in my life. The few guy friends that I have think I'm the luckiest guy around. I don't think I am. BTW I'm not bragging to them. Every time one of my guy friends comes over she's right there and freely talks about our escapades which also bothers me and I have talked to her about it a number of times. So much responsibility and an attractive woman wanting a relationship that I'd have to worry about running off with another woman if things did get more intimate. Pretty much everyone knows about my sex life. All I ever really wanted was to find a woman that's 100% straight that is interested in a monogamous relationship. She has virtually put up a cock block spanning the whole City/county running her mouth about me having 3 ways with her and her friends. The type of woman I want to attract isn't going to find that to be an attractive quality I am nothing special. I'm not rich nor am I a perfect male specimen. At first it felt nice getting the extra attention but I always thought it'd be casual and not constantly blabbed about. She wasn't interested in a serious relationship before why now? I want a monogamous relationship that's not with her. I've pretty much been a complete dick to most of my friends because I feel like I'm suffocating.
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Due to my increased paranoia, anxiety, and a panic attack over the weekend, my psychiatrist has put me back in a full dose of Zyprexa until further notice. Every time I think I'm getting ahead something happens and it's back to square one. I knew he was gonna do this but I can't help feeling disappointed. It is what it is.
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Well, good morning to you!Today is National Roller Coaster Day. Are any of you going?It's also National Tell-A-Joke Day! Come up with some and share!I'm not bright with jokes these days, but I'll start:"Today I ordered a chicken and an egg from Amazon...I'll let you know." :D
I'm not bragging. I'm not the hottest guy in the world. I caught the eye of a beautiful woman that is a lot more attractive than me and likes women more than men. Kinda sucks if you ask me. Especially sense I'm the type of guy who can fall hard if he let's people close to him. I had that boundary FWB'S. She crossed it and it scares the shit out of me. Why would I want more when I can't be enough ?
At one point in my life I did all kinds of stupid crap - threesomes, promiscuous sex.. Maybe it works for some, but in my experience it is bad for the body, it is bad for the soul and he more you do it, the more you think that this is an acceptable lifestyle.
Drew, I get that you are lonely, but you are describing what a shitty person she is and then go back for more.
All the problems that happened to me and to you because of the choices we made are our own fault. If you want to enjoy the life of " sin" where anything goes, you have to deal with the consequences. That simple.
Haha look at me, an atheist talking about sin.
Anyway, sorry you are feeling shitty, hope something changes soon.
I'm an Atheist too.
I wish you well.
You've already told me that you liked women more than men. That pretty much makes you a lesbian with bisexual tendencies which makes it kinda difficult for me to think you could ever stop being with other women and just be with me.
I told her we could be friends but I didn't want her to be around as much. She asked if I was with someone else. I told her that didn't really matter because we were just fwb's.
She said it mattered to her and she left.
I am pretty sure that I knew her pretty well. Never expected the whole maybe there could be something more idea coming from her but I knew that our fun had come to an end after she said it.
I don't even want a relationship now. This event has drained me and feels just as bad as any breakup I had but without the urge to find someone else. No fear of being alone. Just a chance to have a break from the drama.
I don't know if she will stick around and be a friend or if I want her to.
Let's face it. FWB'S is a serious relationship with established boundaries and once it's crossed it's pretty much been ruined.
No worries the FWB experiment is over. It doesn't work for me.
Like meat on a hager awaiting to be consumed and shit out.
There was no substance.
Some people can do it without going through extremes, but in my case, when you grow up with a warped perception of what's normal, this was probably something I had to experience.
Maybe this is your time for self discovery and it had to happen.
I don't know you in real life, but you don't seem like the kind of man who is truly fulfilled by this kind of thing.