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chocolatemommie 02/15/2013

Well I been seeing this guy for about over a month. Guess what he did went into the store and brought his daughter valentine day gifts. as he is picking them out asked me my opinion out the gifts....I am so pissed I didn't even get a happy valentine,no card, no flowers not even a piece of candy...how do I let him know how I feel without getting into a argument.

deleted_user 02/15/2013

Well... When he goes in for some "sugar" you could back away and tell him.. "that kind of thing is for my "Valentine" lol

fireserpent 02/15/2013

I am not really sure there is a nice way to tell a guy I am pissed you did not buy me a present for valentines day but you got your daughter something. Does he treat you great every other day of the year? If he does then you might want to keep it to yourself. A guy that treats you great every day of the week but doesn't buy you stuff for valentines day might be worth more than the opposite.

fireserpent 02/15/2013

http://www.5lovelanguages.com/

Just thought of this. Maybe it will help if it really is bothering you. Some people just need to receive gifts to feel love. Have both of you take the quiz for fun and compare answers. Could be a stepping stone for the conversation that does not make you sound confrontational. or like your jealous of his daughter or greedy.

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