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On here, I do see men who do also like affection, communication as well as the physical touch and desire for mutually pleasing sex.
In the real world, most I observed are not quite as rounded. Good guys are all happily married. Others seem to be players or just toads who only want steamy sex but nothing else. Are there truthfully any of you out there? (Or are you all just very smooth talkers?)
It makes it easy to meet new people as the days of going out and talking to anyone have disappeared. Like its a taboo now adays talking to anyone out. Definitely not how I remember it 20 years ago, and that is how you met people to date.
With men, they all said they are looking for a great woman with certain criteria to have a relationship. When really some just wanted sex, a sugar momma, a model, etc. This is my experience though.
It wasn't until I decided to give men who were in the divorce process or known as separated in their profile, a chance. That is where I was had met some great men, which brought me to my b/f today who I have been with for a few years and have a child together.
In my experience yes the good ones were taken. And if you are a good woman single, it's rough. But, there are also some good ones out there who just don't use online dating and still have hopes to meet their love out somewhere.
If you are not afraid to venture out on your own and go on hikes or bike rides or some classes etc. You may meet a good one there. Meet up. Com has fun things to do. You never know who you will meet and get introduced too.
I guess the trick is to try to find the real ones. If only they were easier to find.